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"Love" your teacher?

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23 August 2008: There are so many posts on the issue of teacher and student relationships. These questions are anything from "Doe's he love me" "I can't forget him" "I love him" "Is it the teachers fault" "I want to tell him" I think that the real quest...

Everyone deserves to be confident!

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23 August 2008: This is mainly for people affected by lack of confidence. Many people have an issue with confidence but feel that they can't talk to any one about it. As a UK student I have just been thinking about what would I change about my last 4 years of high ...

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   28 January 2010: glad to hear your situation is improving :)... (read in full...)

At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child

Q.   MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...

A.   15 November 2009: hi i just saw this question and I'm wondering how are you feeling about your situation and if you defo. going to keep the baby? ..x... (read in full...)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   11 November 2009: hope today went okay..x... (read in full...)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   8 November 2009: I'm soo happy for you and that things have wrorked out :) and im sure you will definatlly feel like a very big weight has been lifted.. yea do keep us updated :) ... (read in full...)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   7 November 2009: i was the annonmous poster.. sorry i havent been on this webbie for a while now and just remembered i wanted to check on how fings are.. and as the other psoters sed the teacher wil be very understanding and i know it is very hard to confide in a ... (read in full...)

"Love" your teacher?

Q.   There are so many posts on the issue of teacher and student relationships. These questions are anything from "Doe's he love me" "I can't forget him" "I love him" "Is it the teachers fault" "I want to tell him" I think that the real quest...

A.   5 September 2009: Hi I am the orignal poster of this question To the latest poster: I can completely understand your point when I wrote this I was (and I still am) bestfriends with my teacher. I wont lie he was very attractive and had an amazing personality but this... (read in full...)

"Love" your teacher?

Q.   There are so many posts on the issue of teacher and student relationships. These questions are anything from "Doe's he love me" "I can't forget him" "I love him" "Is it the teachers fault" "I want to tell him" I think that the real quest...

A.   26 October 2008: thanks for sharing that smartazngirl Its a shame it didnt work out :(... (read in full...)

I really do not want to lose him as a friend but he is more distance since declaring his feelings for me!

Q.   hi im a little confused right now, so thank you for taking the time to read this. my best guy friend last night told me that he liked me more than a friend. but the problem is that i dont like him that way, id love to because he's so amazing! but i ...

A.   24 August 2008: It's good to hear that everything went well... I was in a similar situation but I had no one to ask - I wish I found this website earlier loool... (read in full...)

"Love" your teacher?

Q.   There are so many posts on the issue of teacher and student relationships. These questions are anything from "Doe's he love me" "I can't forget him" "I love him" "Is it the teachers fault" "I want to tell him" I think that the real quest...

A.   24 August 2008: Thanks for taking your time to read this. I believe that yes teenagers can love there teachers I'm not trying to say that it isn't true at all. I just want teenagers to rethink and evaluate there feelings before they consinder telling there teacher ... (read in full...)

Teacher help--does he fancy me too?

Q.   hiya guys! a year ago now a teacher joined my school. (not teaching me though) as soon as we got talking we automatically had some heat between us. i know girl's have crushes on teachers all the time. but he is differnt. everything we say turns in...

A.   23 August 2008: You should read this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/love-your-teacher.html xxx... (read in full...)

I'm obsessed with my teacher and feel I am in love with her!

Q.   Well, I know this is a very redundant topic on here, and I've read a bunch of questions and answers. But the thing is that most that I would like to reply to have been closed. So I finally decided to post my own, as no one question/story is quite ...

A.   23 August 2008: I advise you read this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/love-your-teacher.html xxxx... (read in full...)

I got a sore throat from giving a blowjob. Is it a problem?

Q.   i recently gave my boyfriend a blowjob for quite a long time. the following day i had a sore throat and put it down to the night of fun before. but when i checked, the top of mouth looked like my blood vessles had burst (like a lovebite but inside ...

A.   23 August 2008: It may not be serious but you should get checked out by a doctor. In class we learned about STI's/STD's and the symptoms. I can't remember for sure which STI it was, it could of been syphilis. I strongly advise you to get checked out by a doctor ... (read in full...)

I think I'm ready for sex but part of me is thinking I'm too young... am I?

Q.   I'm 12 years old and have been thinking about sex for a couple of weeks and i really want to try it and no i'm not a slut/slag or whatever you want to call it so my boyfriend who is 3 years older(been with him for a year and totally in love ...

A.   23 August 2008: There is a reason why there are laws that say you shouldnt have sex until you are 16 (at least in the UK) Yes sex is a way to express love. But this kind of expression can create serious problems to our health if you are not old enough. You can ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a teacher. Will these feelings go away?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've been in love with this teacher for 2 years now. At first it was obsession. I know so much about him because he's my cousin's best friend. So its like he's a part of the family. Always at family parties and stuff. But anyway it reall...

A.   23 August 2008: This is worth a read : http://www.dearcupid.org/question/love-your-teacher.html hope it helps xxxx... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to my instructor. Is there a chance?

Q.   Hi there, never knew I would post this. Actually, I have posted my case as an answer to one of the users and I'm sure there'll be people who will know what I'm talking about. For those who do not know my story, here goes. To start off, ...

A.   23 August 2008: Hi Here is an article about loving your teacher/instructor... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/love-your-teacher.html Try not to get to close to your instructor becuase it seems you do care about his future jus with the fact that you have st... (read in full...)

How do I live with my boyfriend and avoid sex?

Q.   I want to live with my boyfriend. How can I avoid sex before marriage? What excuse should I give when he asks for that? ...

A.   23 August 2008: Hii if you love each other you respect each other If he doesnt respect your wishes then what can that say about the realtionship or further issues. I think you should tell him the truth. A relationship should be built on trust - (the failure of ... (read in full...)

Fainting attacks and dizzy spells: can anyone tell me what this is?

Q.   Hello, for the last 8 years, i have had fainting and collapsing attacks or similar. I start to feel dizzy, i start to shake, my heartbeat is really fast and i either end up fainting or i am close to it. This has happened every 3-6 months since i ...

A.   23 August 2008: I am not a doctor - I know that sugar levels can be linked to diabetes but I am sure that your doctor probably would of picked up on it ages ago. I know my friend used to faint all the time when ever they felt a little bit hot. They never found ou... (read in full...)

My wife is in contact with her first love and says she loves him. Do I just leave?

Q.   My wife is still hung up on her first love. She has just had contact with him a little while ago. After that she has been crying and depressed. she says she still loves me, But she loves him too. They have not been together in 20 years. And were ...

A.   23 August 2008: I think right now that the last thing you should do is break up with her. You clearly care about her as you are asking this question and the fact that you are asking if what to do shows that you are not 100% ready to end it. This is the time when ... (read in full...)

I am very angry since my father abandoned my mother, and the anger is a real problem!

Q.   Three years ago, my father left my mother so he could chase a younger girl. I've never been the same since. Every day I think about what he did and I want to kickbox him until joints break. But since I can't do that, I usually end up hitting ...

A.   23 August 2008: Well you have already taken the first step to changing and that is to recognise you need to change! That makes it is the hardest thing you will have to do. Now, your probably thinking I don't know how to release this anger. Think of it like ene... (read in full...)

The real issues about pupil/teacher relationships?

Q.   I have been with dear cupid for a while now, and, i have found that there are quite a few questions about pupil/teacher relationships, I have myself posted a couple. But it never ceases to amaze me. Has anyone got an opinion or story they could ...

A.   23 August 2008: I am a student who thought they did "love" there teacher but I felt that love is a strong word even though I thought my feelings were strong. He helped me soo much... made me confident and reach my full potential. He made me relise I have talent in ... (read in full...)

Why smoke?

Q.   ok i dont know if dis is a article or not but its a poem i made here goes : why smoke its not a joke you know you could croak its not like sugar and spice its like making sure you have lice it makes you stink whats next you gonna drink...

A.   23 August 2008: hahah I loveed it I'm thinking of saying it to my mum Remember you dont have to make EVERY line ryhme but maybe do a rymescheme like shakesperean sonnets (abab cdcd efef gh - i fink it was ) or something similar. Also put some emotions into to... (read in full...)

I really do not want to lose him as a friend but he is more distance since declaring his feelings for me!

Q.   hi im a little confused right now, so thank you for taking the time to read this. my best guy friend last night told me that he liked me more than a friend. but the problem is that i dont like him that way, id love to because he's so amazing! but i ...

A.   23 August 2008: This is a really tricky situation All I could advise is don't change the way you act with him because it will make him feel embarrised knowing you feel uncomfortable. Also he may just be a bit upset and maybe just feels a bit disappointed... (read in full...)

If a guy doesn't introduce you to his family does it mean he's not serious about you?

Q.   I would like to know if the guy doesn't introduce you to his family,does it mean that he doesn't want have future with you?I am a mature woman(42) and the person i am involved is 56 years old.I am a bit confused.Give me some advice please....

A.   23 August 2008: Not necessarily He could have had problems with his family in the past or maybe even embarissed by them. You haven't explained his relationship with them or if he has regular contact or has said anything about them. But from what you have said ... (read in full...)

I never told my boyfriend about the guy pinning me down making me do sexual things! I feel like I'm dying inside because of it.

Q.   My heart is breaking into a million pieces, and its all my fault. i have been with my bf for over 4 yrs, and jus over a month ago i made the biggest mistake of my life. i cant eat, i cant sleep, i jus feel like dying. i work with the same company my ...

A.   23 August 2008: I would agree with most of the other aunts here. It sounds like rape! It doesnt matter what the circumstances were you said NO and no one has the rights to make you do something with your body that you don't want to. If all he has against you ... (read in full...)

By the time I figure out a girl wants me, they've moved on or lost interest. Why are girls so hard to read?

Q.   True story: I knew "Ashley" for four years in high school, and then the day before we graduate I found out she's had a crush on me the whole time! If I had known about it sooner, I would have asked her out (she's pretty, smart, the whole package); ...

A.   23 August 2008: hahaha I love this question It is the same for girls too! The guys I like turn me down and the guys that I don't think like me do! Clearly people just need to be upfront about there feelings - including me! I would rather be turned down and hon... (read in full...)

I'm very skinny and I feel very depressed because of my thin figure.

Q.   Ever since I was a small child I have been extremely slim. I have always looked slim! I have always been made fun out of because of this, people used to call me (and still do) twiggy, skinny, flat, a LINE (!), even a STICK. I always used to ask m...

A.   23 August 2008: Hii Having read this post I was thinking your my twin! I am in the exact same position - my mum was naturally skinny when she was younger but as she grew up her matabolism slowed down and now she has a curvy figure. However my dad thinks I'... (read in full...)

Is it safe to use baby oil as lube?

Q.   Hi, this is quite embarrasing but i need to know the answer so any info would be great. Me and my boyfriend love to massage each other as a build up to sex, we use baby oil and as you can imagine the oil kind of gets used as lube, but i dont kno...

A.   16 August 2008: If you use baby oil the condom will make holes and not be of much use - that is why unfortunatly that is why you have to buy it seperate - u shudnt be embarrised - its better to be safe than sorry :D... (read in full...)

Please don't make any of the answers "You are too young to be thinking about this", as I'm not going to be participating in the act. I am simply curious.

Q.   Okay, let me just stress that NONE OF THESE QUESTIONS ARE THINGS I AM GOING TO DO! Please don't make any of the answers "You are too young to be thinking about this", as I'm not going to be participating in the act. I am simply curious. There are ...

A.   6 August 2008: Hi My R.E teacher used to do sex education with us and he always said that it is good to be curious and he would rather we ask any question so we don't try anything because we want to know the answer lool. Doing anything sexualy should be an... (read in full...)

How could I prevent myself from being laughed at?

Q.   Sometimes when i'm shopping i'm afraid to walk into some stores, because the sales associates might laugh at me the way I look, tease me, or just won't bother to help me. What could I do to get over this? How could I prevent myself from being ...

A.   6 August 2008: Hi Why do you think it's the way look? If you think it's because of the way you dress/look only ever change who YOU are and what YOU look like for 1 reason only and thats YOU. If you are going to change then good luck but... It could be that the... (read in full...)

If I see someone cute, that I am attracted too, my face turns beet red, is there a way to stop blushing, it is embarrassing?

Q.   Well my problem is that I blush too much..I can't stand it.This one time my teacher was helping me on my homework and this guy that I thought was cute was standing by her to ask her a question well my face started to turn red,my heart was beating so ...

A.   5 August 2008: If you really feel self concious about it there is a treatment called Intense Pulsed Light (IPL) and it starts from around £200. As with all treatments I would make sure that you thoroughly check the side effects even if they say they are not sign... (read in full...)

My long distance girlfriend left me hanging for two months, came back around, but I think I want to end the relationship, although I love her, why shouldn't I end it?

Q.   I've been dating this girl miki, For about a year now It's a rather long distance relationship. I'm 16, and shes 22. We only sadly saw each other once a month maybe twice. We always kept in touch, On phone, Text, Msn or just email. We talked ev...

A.   5 August 2008: I think you should draw a chart - Advantages and Disadvantages of your relationship. If there are more Disadvantages than advantages im afraid to say you should think about ending it. Also think about how supportive she is and how supportive you ... (read in full...)

How can I deal with and get over all of this??

Q.   Hello! I've been in a relationship for 4,5 years and it was the love of my life. Apart from great sex we could talk and hug for hours and were helping and supporting each other. We had problems... but I believed our love can make up for it. I wa...

A.   5 August 2008: Marraige is when 2 people who are willing to show their love for each other and are prepared to stay together forever. It is a big commitment and you were obviously very much in love with this guy. He wasnt ready to make the commitment but it wasnt ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my ex who thinks he can treat me really badly?

Q.   Ano i am still young but when i was in 1st year i me this guy and i didnt like him atal but he liked me and asked me out.I felt bad and thought he was cute so i thought why not so i did but i then realised i dont want this i am too young so i dumped ...

A.   5 August 2008: I know this may not seem ideal right now but you should go out with your friends again and see other guys and I am sure you will get over him. If that doesn't work a box of chocs, ice cream and a good old chic flic will do the trick :D... (read in full...)

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