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30-35,
*o_in_love
writes:A few months back me and my "best mate" were at a friend's house, and the guy I'd liked for a year and half was there, she ended up kissing him right in front of me, like it wouldn't be painful for me. We were both quite drunk so when I got home I let her know how hurt I was. She kept apologising saying it'd never happen again and I mean so much to her and she's sorry and that she doesn't like him that way and insulted him for a while too. I forgave her, as I've always said friends come before guys.A few months passed and everything was fine. Until last night. I was at a party and I got told she had been sat on his knee, so I text her having a go, but doing it so she'd take it as a joke to show I was ok with it. When she text back apologising a mate read it over my shoulder and went "oh so she told you she kissed him last night then?" which I didn't know. I've now liked him for almost 2 years. She knows exactly how I feel about him. I've had another go at her, and even though I love her to bits and I always put my mates first I don't know if I can still be mates with her, shes betrayed my trust and hurt me so bad.Please help, what should I do??xxx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Then like i said before, shes insensitive & i wouldnt be calling her my mate thats for sure.
C xxxxx
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reader, so_in_love +, writes (14 August 2007):
so_in_love is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis post doesn't give the full story of me and him, but a lot of shit has happened. He knows how I feel. He used to like me. He broke my heart, quite a few times.
Don't you think I've tried getting over him?? I hate liking him, I hate him. Yet I can't get over him. She knows how much of a struggle I've gone through with him and everything that has happened. And she knows exactly how I feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): If this was your boyfriend i could see the big issue, admittedly your friends not been subtle but the guy isnt yours. You cant like him that much or you'd have asked him out, 2years is plenty of time to make a move. If you want to date him ask him out if not get over him, get off your high horse and accept that he's going to kiss, date and have sex with other people.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (13 August 2007):
Hi
Sounds like your mate might be in competition with you!Maybe theres a deeper seated rivalry going on there.
If your not actually dating this guy, then the golden rules dont really apply to be honest.
Its a bit insensititve of her. Maybe shes just having a giggle? I mean, shes not dating him after all this time is she?
Its hard for you to lay claim on someone you're not actually with though sweetie.
C xxxx
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