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I fingered my gf the other day and she said it wasn't as good as she thought it would be.

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Question - (30 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, *oushite writes:

I fingered my gf the other day and i asked how it felt. She said it didn't feel any different and that it felt normal. It was her first time and she was expecting more out of it but she said it wasn't as good as she thought it would be. I was wondering how they are suppose to feel and are they suppose to feel good on the first time.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (30 January 2010):

Not My Name agony auntI am guessing you went straight for her vaginal canal and expected some 'finger banging' to do something for her?

I suggest you google up a female anatomy chart, check out the little spot called the clitoris, and next time, stimulate that instead. I be you will get a diff reaction.

If you wanna spend some time in the vaginal canal as well, try (once you have aroused her clitorally) placing a finger/s with your palm face up towards you, and using a beckoning 'come here' motion. Not in and out piston action that does jack shit! You should be able to feel a rough spot on the anterior wall an inch or 2 in. This is her G-spot. Some women will go nuts for this, some can't stand the feeling, ..but be a good boy and ask her whilst you are doing ANYTHING to her if it feels nice, if she would like it harder or softer, faster or slower, ... or just somewhere else altogether.

Your not supposed to be a mind reader, and since every girl is different, you really do need to communicate with questions to find the best way to please HER.

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