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writes: hi i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now we live togther but the thing is i don`t know if i still love him i feel sorry for him if i finish it i am 27 he is 47. and fancy someone else now what should i do ??? Reply to this Question
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reader, shania  +, writes (18 May 2006):
 I certainly wouldn't stay with someone because i felt sorry for them,you would only end up hating them and losing all respect.If you want someone else then go for it....life is too short to be pleasing other people.No one likes to being dumped but its a fact of life.Dont prolong this any longer....good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 May 2006):
 Quick and fast like removing a bandaid. His pain might be intense at first but everyone eventually gets on top of it and can go on to lead happy lives. You both owe it to yourselves.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (18 May 2006):
 Go with your heart and finish it, yes it will hurt but that is better than staying with someone you no longer love out of pity and worry about hurting them, deciet hurts more and before long you will be tempted to stray so dont stay!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006): End it. Do the deed and put yourself out of this torment. I never seen a love relationship endure for very long, once 'pity' becomes an encompassing factor. Good Luck.
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reader, CRose +, writes (18 May 2006):
You have to follow your heart, and be honest with him.
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