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I feel like my boyfriend is bored of me, and maybe he's already cheated?

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Question - (25 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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what are the signs that a boy is bored of you and fallen out of love with you?

i just want to know because i feel like my boyfriend is slowly falling out of love with me and i wanted to know some signs, thanks. x

Should I be concerned? My boyfriend said he would stay with me even if I cheated on him. He asked if I would do the same and I said I didn't know. He was kind of offended. Does this mean he has already cheated or he plans to if he can't help it if he's drunk one night? He said he never would but he wants to know if I would be with him no matter what.

my boyfriend keeps getting calls and voice messages from weird numbers that begin with 011 and things like that, thing is he avoids answering it and i dont know why, its making me feel like hes up to something, we been together a year, i would say we are pretty much happy, sex has gone down a tiny bit (we dont do it as much as when we first got together) is that normal?

we love eachother very much, im his first love, but i find it hard to trust at times due to a past relationship, i looked through his phone the other night, i didnt see anything suspicious, his call list had been deleted but he still had messages in his inbox after i felt bad for checking... one minute i feel i trust him 100% then a few weeks down the line i start to get suspicious, its up and down all the time. also when we have sex (we still do it quite alot) he doesnt cum, he just waits until my orgasm is over then he stops sometimes, its been a while since he has came, he has been really tired lately could that be the cause? because im starting to feel really worthless thinking he dont fancy me anymore because of it...hes always hugging and kissing me and telling me he loves me, but im starting to think maybe hes bored, i want to try out new things with him to excite him but he doesnt ask and i dont want to sound silly as im quite shy, i just want to please him in the sack so i dont lose him, do you have any tips?? and any advice on my problems.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

this happened to me with my fiance not long ago, i didnt do anything but she listened to her mates and stuff and im really heart broken n depressed all the time now, turns out she was hiding stuff from me, irony much? Theres no proof so dont break hearts. Seriously, im totally lost, in tears all the time and havent slept more than 2 or 3 hours in the last like 5 days. :(

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A male reader, Please Go To The Doctor United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2010):

Your so-called boyfriend sounds like an ass! Leave hime whilst you can still save face. Honestly, be serious... "I'll still love you even if you cheat on me"... he's a git and probably already has. Look at that quit boy, you know, the one who's always liked you but isn't popular. That's the bank! That's the bloke who will treat you propelry, love you and make you feel good about yourself. You'll know what I'm taliking about in ten years or so... Good luck

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