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I think he likes me, what should I do next?

Q.   I'm 14 and there is a guy I like. This guy is 14 and we have karate together and I think he likes me. He looks at me when I don't look at him but I catch him seeing me and I say what and he says nothing.we've hug 3x the 1st one and the last he ...

A.   10 June 2012: He just wants to be your firend. Act normal like you usually act around your friend. Enjoy your childhood baby. ... (read in full...)

Should I cheat on him?

Q.   Ok ok I can do this _ SO! This is my first question on a site like this so... If this question is dumb please be gentle.. Sooo I have a boyfriend I love him a lot! The thing is it's long distance and things get a bit... lonely.. He's a total video ...

A.   5 June 2012: So let me get this righte. You want us to give you our permission to cheat on your beloved one, then after a few days you will come asking us " I cheated on him, what do I do now????". Do what is right. You don't want to stay with him tell him... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with my ex but we broke up 2 years ago, help me!

Q.   I've met someone four years ago, we stayed together for 2 years then kept going in and out of the relationship. I can't forget, I can't move on. I need to kill this love in my heart. The mind got forget but the heart just won't let go. I know it is ...

A.   9 April 2012: Hi, it's me again. I've received a call from my ex, he begged me to have him back in my life. he said that he loves me and he can't move on. I already refused and I'm feeling horrible . what shall i do? did i do the right thing?... (read in full...)

Should I change my hair colour for him?

Q.   I am dating a new guy and his type is brunette with olive skin. I am blonde, which i dye. My natural color is dark brown. Should I go back to my natural color? He asked me to but acted like he was joking but i dont think he was. So stay blond or go ...

A.   21 March 2012: The right question that you should be asking yourself lady is Would he leave you or keep you relying on your hair color?! That's YOUR hair. ... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with my ex but we broke up 2 years ago, help me!

Q.   I've met someone four years ago, we stayed together for 2 years then kept going in and out of the relationship. I can't forget, I can't move on. I need to kill this love in my heart. The mind got forget but the heart just won't let go. I know it is ...

A.   16 March 2012: Thank you ... (read in full...)

My husband cant have sex with me so I found a lover, but now I have lost him too! What do I do now?

Q.   FOur years down the married lane, I am still remain untouched by my husband. He has a medical condition of low testosterone, low libido, that is under treatment...and might take longer for him to actually sexually function. He has been loving, ...

A.   12 March 2012: When you get married you took the vow to be together through better or worse. so when you say "I patiently wait for him". Woman this is what you are suppose to do for god sake!! "He has been loving, supportive and affectionate" so you find you... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with my ex but we broke up 2 years ago, help me!

Q.   I've met someone four years ago, we stayed together for 2 years then kept going in and out of the relationship. I can't forget, I can't move on. I need to kill this love in my heart. The mind got forget but the heart just won't let go. I know it is ...

A.   12 March 2012: I know why it won't work. we have different culture and religion. I know that the consequences of being together won't be good so I decided to stay away from him. yes he has been always good to me and that's why I kept going back to him. I couldn't ... (read in full...)

Are you always going to miss your ex?

Q.   I was just wondering do you always miss your ex?. Like I broke up with mmy ex 4 years ago but at times i still miss him...Does this happen everyone and does this stay with you forever?...

A.   11 March 2012: It has been four years and it still feels like yesterday. it stays ... (read in full...)

Do people still believe in horoscopes and can horoscopes help relationships in any way?

Q.   Hi, everyone I was just wondering if any of you guys believe in Horoscopes, the perfect match, and that you know. I find it kinda weird when people start saying that this is not good for her and that is better, ask about his zodiac signal. B...

A.   10 September 2011: Someone told me once that I'm hard to be with cuz I'm a tauras woman.lol. Was really serious. ... (read in full...)

Do people still believe in horoscopes and can horoscopes help relationships in any way?

Q.   Hi, everyone I was just wondering if any of you guys believe in Horoscopes, the perfect match, and that you know. I find it kinda weird when people start saying that this is not good for her and that is better, ask about his zodiac signal. B...

A.   10 September 2011: Someone told me once that I'm hard to be with cuz I'm a tauras woman.lol. Was really serious. ... (read in full...)

I haven't had a period for 5 months. Is this normal?

Q.   I've been on my period for about 5 times they were normal and my last period was in March and I haven't been on it since. Is there anything wrong with me or is it just normal?...

A.   26 August 2011: If you have just start getting your period recently then it's normal it takes sometimes to be regular. The second time I got my period was 3 months later. But you can see your doc and check that would be better. ... (read in full...)

Is telling him I love him a bad idea?

Q.   I've liked a guy for about a year now and I'm starting to think I might be in 'love' but I've seen so many of my friends feel the same and get their hearts broken. I haven't told him about my feelings because I don't think he likes me, he's never in ...

A.   26 August 2011: You will never know if u don't tell him. I don't get why would his sister not be okay with you being with her brother?! Just go for it it's better than regret it later.he might like you but not sure about the way you feel. ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend afraid of love?

Q.   I think my boyfriend is afraid of love. He will be so into me for a few days, and just during the height of things he will start acting funny. One day he will say he loves me, the next he will say he doesn't know. Whenever I start to get really ...

A.   11 August 2011: He's not afraid of love, he has a low self esteem he seems confused and not sure of what he really wants. Give him some time to think and clear his mind and see what happens. ... (read in full...)

Is the age gap really a problem? What do I do?

Q.   Basically me and my best friend are very very close and we spend a lot of time with eachother and eachother's familes and friends. For about a year or so now i have known this guy who lives next door to her, we get on really really well and from day ...

A.   7 August 2011: It's not the age that defines people or the way we usually expect them to behave. Some people act their age, some act like if they were older/ younger. Take him as he is. Age defines what life experience a person can have. Personality and ones mind ... (read in full...)

What have I done so wrong?

Q.   whats the best way for me to handle this. im so down at the mo. everyday at work theres always someone ready to make me the butt of their jokes. noone likes me because i work really hard and say i will make them look bad so im viewed as a social ...

A.   28 July 2011: ignorance is your key. you are confident, hard working person and have nothing to worry about. let them behave the way they want but you show no weakness. you don't need to have company with such people. you have your own friends outside the work. ... (read in full...)

Should I stop watching porn?

Q.   Can anyone tell me of any reasons that they can think of as to why I shouldn't watch porn? I watch it every couple of weeks, or so - just when I'm in the mood to. But then I feel sort of guilty, like I shouldn't be watching it. Do you think I should ...

A.   27 July 2011: I know that a lot of people here will disagree with what I'm gonna say here but I'm gonna say it anyway. what happens in the bedroom should be kept in the bedroom. No one supposes to be looking at what's happening in other people bedrooms and that's ... (read in full...)

Will he ever respect me or should I just move on?

Q.   Hi guys now i have been seeing my boyfriend for 17 months yesterday we got into an arguement and i called him immature and a wannabe because he made his female friend fall off a rope while she was walking on it and also turned her kayak and made her ...

A.   26 July 2011: Give him a chance if you want to and if you really believe that you can change him. Give him a chance yet not chances. ... (read in full...)

I don't like sex, people think thats a bad thing

Q.   Hello, I am an 18 year old female and I dont like the thought of sex, at all. I think its repulsive and gross. I am still a virgin and perfectly okay with it. I dont see how its can be enjoyable or pleasurable for anyone. I have not been ...

A.   26 July 2011: SO very Confused, is right and I couldn't add anything to her words. you will feel that you want it when you meet that someone who will wake your senses up.. ... (read in full...)

Will he ever respect me or should I just move on?

Q.   Hi guys now i have been seeing my boyfriend for 17 months yesterday we got into an arguement and i called him immature and a wannabe because he made his female friend fall off a rope while she was walking on it and also turned her kayak and made her ...

A.   26 July 2011: He is mean to his friends, he's mean to you. it's not about giving or deserving chances. Are you happy with him? Is he making you happy? ... (read in full...)

I don't like sex, people think thats a bad thing

Q.   Hello, I am an 18 year old female and I dont like the thought of sex, at all. I think its repulsive and gross. I am still a virgin and perfectly okay with it. I dont see how its can be enjoyable or pleasurable for anyone. I have not been ...

A.   26 July 2011: That's kind of reminding me of myself, the first idea came to my mind when I discovered what having sex meant, "So gross" I said to myself,I used to think the same way. I'm not saying that you should have sex and all, I'm just letting you know that ... (read in full...)

I want to tell him how I feel...but I don't want to scare him...please help!

Q.   Okay so I don't really know where to start, I've been seeing this guy for about two months now, we've known each other longer than that, but it's only been two months that we're actually "dating", or should I say, having sex ... I would love it if ...

A.   24 July 2011: so you saying that he contacts you only when he wants sex? well girl, you should put in mind that he might be using you. Try to find out first are you more than a sex buddy to him or not? then act from it. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is going off to college, how can I be sure he won't cheat?

Q.   Hi there, My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We love each other very much but very soon he's going to have to go away to college which is very far from where I am. I'm paranoid he's going to cheat on me because I ...

A.   27 March 2011: if you don't trust each other, you shall not be together. Relationships should build up on trust otherwise is will fall down. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is going off to college, how can I be sure he won't cheat?

Q.   Hi there, My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We love each other very much but very soon he's going to have to go away to college which is very far from where I am. I'm paranoid he's going to cheat on me because I ...

A.   27 March 2011: if you don't trust each other, you shall not be together.Relationships should build up on trust otherwise is will fall down. ... (read in full...)

Love across continents, never met him, my parents are hell bent against him....but I cant seem to give up!

Q.   Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We met online January this year, and it started off with a friendship. We shared a lot of things in common and one day he asked me if we could be something more t...

A.   21 December 2010: The burden you feel that your parents put on you, is kinda the same burden you feel toward your bf coz he's sick (that's possible). Hun, you know what he tells you. You have to meet him. I really don't want you to get hurt by anyway. Be careful and ... (read in full...)

Love across continents, never met him, my parents are hell bent against him....but I cant seem to give up!

Q.   Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We met online January this year, and it started off with a friendship. We shared a lot of things in common and one day he asked me if we could be something more t...

A.   20 December 2010: Dear, Please don't build castles in the air. I do know what I'm talking about, I've been through that once and still injured from that. Let him comes to your place first (he can take a holiday won't harm him), meet in person, spend time together, ... (read in full...)

Sexual fantasies about my cousin...

Q.   For the past few years, I have had sexual fantasies of my sexy cousin. I have wanted to do anything and everything to her. I don't care if she is blood, she is so sexy. I want to have sex with her, and i am not sure as to how i should tell her. ...

A.   2 December 2010: Excuse mw!!you don't love her, you just wanna F**k her. Where did the respect go. huh... (read in full...)

Homelessness.....

Q.   Hi, everybody well, I know that my question may not related to this site by any way (a site for social advice would be great). but since you are all active and like answering questions. I'd like to know your views on the issue of homelessness. ...

A.   27 November 2010: wow, bernard. what an answer.lol Thanks everyone. that's really helped ... (read in full...)

Need a good honest opinion of what to do now.

Q.   My girlfriend of 9 months told me from the beginning of the relationship to never ask her about her past sexual experiences and it bothered me having to be so mysterious.... last night she was extremely drunk and we were having sex and I asked her ...

A.   27 November 2010: she will tell you with time. ... (read in full...)

Homelessness.....

Q.   Hi, everybody well, I know that my question may not related to this site by any way (a site for social advice would be great). but since you are all active and like answering questions. I'd like to know your views on the issue of homelessness. ...

A.   27 November 2010: hi, all I've one more question on the issue of homelessness.What do you think could be the possible reasons for those homeless who choose street over shelter. why would some of the homeless refuse to go to shelter? ... (read in full...)

Does he love me or is it the sex?

Q.   dear cupid, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years. now he wants to take it to the next level. we have kissed once but we never actually started dating as yet. he met my parents but i have not met his as yet and he is dying for me to me...

A.   26 November 2010: I don't think he's after sex. people express their feeling differently, we are not the same. he's just being himself with you and he sounds to me like he's really comfortable with you to share that much part of his live with you. people may laug... (read in full...)

Homelessness.....

Q.   Hi, everybody well, I know that my question may not related to this site by any way (a site for social advice would be great). but since you are all active and like answering questions. I'd like to know your views on the issue of homelessness. ...

A.   26 November 2010: The reason behind asking this question is that one of my friends (from another country) told me that in his country there's no homeless shelters at all. not because it's a poor country and can't provide shelters to homeless people but because most ... (read in full...)

Do women really prefer more 'masculine' men for sex but less 'masculine' men for relationships?

Q.   I've read quite a few articles about evolutionary psychology and the theory that women tend to prefer more masculine men for short term sexual relationships, but prefer less masculine men for long term relationships. As I understand it, the theory ...

A.   22 November 2010: personally,I like my man because he has a soft heart. But he can use his muscles when it required. I feel like i can depend on the man who's more masculine than who's less masculine. some if not all women tend to worry a lot and they usually seek ... (read in full...)

Help! Why does he keep coming back???

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend 2 years and within that 2 years we have been on and off, he keeps dumping me and then running back telling me hes made a mistake.. an that hes goin crazy without me.. why does he keep running back? and its not for sex....

A.   13 June 2010: if you can tell more, the information is not enough for me to say anything. ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and we want to have a baby

Q.   People are telling me i'm Crazy ! Im 15 and planning to have a baby ? My boyfriend and i been together for about 1 year and Two Months. He tells me he Loves me and he will never Leave me.We been having intercourse since we meet. Now we both want to ...

A.   6 February 2010: sweetheart you are not ready for such responsibility, lots of couples talk about that " I do and my boyfriend" but laugh enjoy the idea but wait each girl want baby this is so normal it's the mother feeling if i could call it. you said that your ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm living with a stranger in the house, so I have turned to online affairs so I can live a fantasy of my own!

Q.   Been married for 3 years - we met over the internet and I flew half way across the world to be with him. We got married and have a child (an infant). However, it's been weird between us. We do argue a lot - however, we always seem to be very formal ...

A.   26 January 2010: Have a talk this is always work, come out with what's inside you. How he will know if you said nothing " men need women to tell". ... (read in full...)

Guilt over not calling a friend the night before she died

Q.   Again, I have another non relationship-related question, but I love the advice, so I figured I'd ask. On october 23rd of 2009, a dear friend passed away from ALS. I saw her for the last time ever on the 3rd of october, My last promise to her w...

A.   23 January 2010: one of my friend use to say it's life each time someone passed away I hate that i felt like he has no feeling to say that say you are sorry or don't say anything at all but don't say it's life but with time I started to realize it's really just life ... (read in full...)

He left how do I get him back?

Q.   he left for another!i know he loves me but has gone to her for sex,cause im one of those who'll wait to get married... how could i make him come back begging to get back with me? ...

A.   15 September 2009: "Has gone to her for sex" left you for sex and you want him back, does he deserve? I don't think so. You don't need this kind of men. Simply forget him and move on in your life. He doesn't love you if he did then he wouldn't do what he did. Thi... (read in full...)

Problem is , I don't feel anything for him anymore, how can I let him down easily?

Q.   I'm so confused. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months, and I do love him, but I don't feel like I want to be with him. I like spending time with him, watching a film, or going to the pub etc, but I can't look at him the way I should when ...

A.   28 August 2009: your question somehow is like something I'm going throw now.I thought a lot about it and I found out that I love him as a friend but I could say nothing because of him having a bad time and saying I love you to me all the time or every time I want ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend completely overreacted when I couldnt send her money! What should I do in this situation?

Q.   Hi viewers. I have this problem. My girlfriend and I are in our relationship for six months and we have had our ups and downs. Until one day last week, she was robbed at knifepoint while she was in the Philippines with her family. When she told me ...

A.   27 August 2009: WHAT, sorry but I can say nothing but open my mouth no words, she has to know relationship and caring about someone is not all money it's emotions. what happened with people turned to materialist Ugh. ... (read in full...)

Tips to break up with my boyfriend please!

Q.   Help! ! I need to break up with my boyfriend but I don’t know how; I’m 17 my boyfriend is 18 with a 10months old baby, we’ve been going out for 6months now and at the time when I went out with him I didn’t think about the emotional problems I...

A.   24 August 2009: why you guys like to beat around the bush you want to break up with him just say it you owe him and yourself the truth be honest and end it tell him it doesn't or can't work between you.... (read in full...)

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