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writes:I'm in my third year at university and have been seeing my girlfriend for little under a year. Lately she has started talking about sex. I'm a bit hesitant for several reasons.A) I'm a virgin.B) She isn't a virgin so we're not in the same situationC) She has had sex with 2 guys and she has a vibrator (found it by accident). Therefore I am up against some competition to be just as good or better than those experiences.Can anyone give any websites on sex, foreplay etc. Also on a female body, when having sex, does she get aroused when her partner touches any part of her skin or is only in certain areas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2006): Bro i say just wait maybe this girl isnt for u and u have sex and later break up then u just be another guy on her list. im not sayin wait for a virgin but wait for the girl that ur gonna marry itll mean so much more to u. i am a virgin but my gf isnt, i love her and were gonna wait till we get married to have sex, she would give anythin in the world to be a virgin again. take care and God bless
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reader, SXYBB91 +, writes (13 August 2006):
i know what it is like but i say just go for it my bf lost his virginity wen he was 11 and i was a virgin and i was worried about it at first incase he would think im crap but i say just go for it. i like it wen i lad touches my neck that really gets me aroused and if a lad kisses my neck aswell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2006): Here's a forum with a massive archive of sex related stuff: http://www.allsexadvice.com/forum/index.php
As for answering to your 'dilemma', really, this isn't a big deal. Great sex is when you achieved experience in 'naturally' knowing how to move yourself and touch your partner. Good sex which is the level before great sex is communication. When she talks about sex, just ask her, "Where do you like to be touched?" "How can I make you feel good?" "What can I do to arouse you?" Etc...
There is no competition here. If you think/feel like this, this may actually be your downfall in the relationship. Rather, you should concentrate on talking with her, experiment on each other's errogenous zones, what works, what doesn't. If you make a mistake, learn from it, move on. Tell her, "I want to see you use your vibrator in front of me." Then when she's masturbating in front of you, proceed to ask, "How does it feel?" "Are you thinking of me?" "What exactly am I doing to you in your imagination?"
Key word: "communicate".
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