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writes: Im just about to have a baby with my girlfriend she lives in another country, and i have only know her for 5 months. The trouble is i know her well but not compleatly, and i get this fear she will out grow me, meat some one who is better for her, with more money, or better looking ect. , and just when im compleatly dependant of her, she leave me in a state of depression. please help me i feel like a freak who has lost his strength and confidencen just wanna be happy and be a family Tom
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Hey tom
So you saying she lefted you if i'm reading it clearly, i think she did so because she is scared and she isn't ready for a child. i think she loves you but feels she hardly knows you as well.
You love her and she loves you she just needs space. Everyone has the fear that they are not good enough but you seem like a loyal, loving guy. Looks and money are not everything! just give it a little time and if she doesn't say anything shes waiting for you give her a call
i hope i helped!
and i hope it works out
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