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writes:Okay, so I'm dating this guy and everything is great.Execpt I feel like theres alot of pressure on me. The last girl he went out with was gorgeous, she's really pretty and one of them most desired girls in school.I feel like I cant possibly live up to her high standards. I'm just so ordinary.It doesnt help that he's also extremeley good looking and has loads of girls after him.I've heard people saying things about me behind my back like 'how is that ugly freak going out with HIM?'I always feel like people are looking at me and him and thinking how mis-matched we are. It's really bringing me down and I don't know what to do about it.Any suggestions?Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, Neanthia  +, writes (24 January 2010):
 Sister,beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, I'm not just saying that, I liked a guy once for two years, when I got over him I realized he was as pasty faced and nerdy as sin, that's probably a hyperbole but what can I say? Some guys trigger aggression in me. I'm sure you're fine the way you are, if he likes your looks enough to go out with you and you really like him I don't see a problem. Those people talking about you? Ignore them. I know it's not easy, but they-are-jealous! It's as simple as that. They want to see you struggling, the key is not to let them get to you, stare them in the face and talk to them with pride. Don't worry about what other people say, what's important is what your bf thinks, but most of all what YOU think about yourself.
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reader, problemmaganet  +, writes (24 January 2010):
 You shouldn't listen to what those other people say. Really, it's none of their business. You are you. Don't try to be like this other girl. If the boy is trying to make you be, time to move on, but if he is going out with you because he likes you, then enjoy it. Try talking to your bf and see what he's doing to handle the situation.
Good luck!!
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