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female
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26-29,
*reenMaryJane
writes:There are so many things that feel "inclear" about in my relationship with my boyfriend.according to him we have "the perfect relationship". But for me there is a big red questionmark over my head and it feels like I have asked some of the questions I have like a billion times and I can tell that he is sort of getting sick of it... I am doubting his feelings for me alot too, He is sick of that to. He says he loves me and all that and he cares for me. I wonder why I feel like this ? cause it makes me really sad and all. Maybe I have low self esteem ? How can I improve it and how can he help boost it ? It feels like Im ruinig this relationship with my angry/sad mood all the time that comes with all of my questions. please help me.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 Hi,
No one can boost your self esteem but you. Do not rely on anyone else to make you happy or feel good about yourself. You'll be up and down like a yo yo toy everytime with mood swings.
You will push him away by asking all these questions...so stop and trust him and what he says.
In the meanwhile, I suggest you get help from a professional counsellor with regards to dealing with your insecurities and coaching you how to have a positive outlook on yourself.
Without fixing that...you'll be having this issue every single time.
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