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30-35,
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writes:Soo I fell in love with someone last year around new years. She was single for a long time but I never made a move, i felt stupid. Now she has a boyfriend and they have been together for about 3 months. I have met the guy like 4 times now and he seems really nice and caring of her. I am happy for her but at the same time want to replace that guy. Its hard and I feel heartbroken. Her and I flirt and have fun but nothing too serious except maybe on two occasions :). I think she is committed to her boyfriend but I sense she has feelings for me too. I really want to let her know about my deep feelings for her but then i might be splitting them up and so on... what to do?!?! My conscience tells me no and my heart says yes. I feel like the more i wait maybe she will stay with this guy forever :( i think its like her 2nd relationship and she is almost 21....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 January 2011):
You're not even close, I'm afraid. Those senses are all wrong, and that's why she's with him and not you. You need to move on.
There's no way you can replace that guy. No way. If she left him for you of her own accord, fine. But if you go to her and tell her, you'll just look bad in her eyes.
Time to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): Tell her before it's too late. Like you said the longer you wait the more attached to him she will grow. I waited forever for my old bf to come back and when he did I wondered what I had ever seen in him when I was in love with the man I'm now married to. Get to her while she has anything left for you.
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