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writes:Please helpIve been with my boyfriend for 9 months at the end of the month and I honestly love him as hes the nicest lad ive ever met..but theres somebody else. Hes a work mate, but we dont work together very often but i see him occasionally at parties and get togethers. On christmas eve he made a move on me and we ended up snogging all night. Afterwards we both felt bad and that was the end of it. Last night though we ended up kissing again and I really like him. Hes so different to my boyfriend. Hes moving away in 2 months to go to uni and I dont know what to do...I feel bad for cheating on my boyfriend yet I want this other lad..but is it worth finishing my boyfriend foradvice would be greatly recieved
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (10 June 2007):
 OK, from what you say, you have said about cheating on your bf but what it sounds like was a lot of snogging and it didn't go any further than that? Am I right or not
This other guy is moving away in 2 months and so he won't be on your doorstep.
You either love your bf or you don't and if you don't then let him go as it just isn't fair.
However, if you do love him and the parties have meant alcohol and not truly being in control of your emotions then really take stock and ask yourself what your bf really means to you, do you want to waste a perfectly good relationship for a quick snog or maybe some quick fun with this other guy until he goes off to uni and forgets you?
You are still young and so tying yourself completely to a bf is not wise at this time in your life if you feel trapped or not able to experience other people in your life.
Truly decide what it is that you want right now and stick with it as you will continue to go round in circles and drive yourself insane.
Keep us posted eh!
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Country Woman
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reader, ANGELS66  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 You need to be honest with yourself. If you truly loved him you wouldn't want to be with someone else. You need to sit down and decide what you want, make the descion and stick with it. Your not being fair to yourself or either of the young men involved in this situation.
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