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writes:this is embarrassing. i think i have a really good body..but i dnt hav a gf. obviously good girls aren't shallow jus to go for a bloke who takes care of himself.. so i think i hav an ugly face cuz i always hear how girls ask a guy out but i never get asked out by a girl. so lately i hav also tried to fix my face up haha.. but still no success in finding a lady and so its put me down.. im fairly short too but i dnt believe that should be a downturn..should it ladies? whoever thinks that a tall bloke equals power then they're lower than a midget.WHAT DO I DO!! is it jus luck at this stage isnt so great? where can i go to find and interact with women except for online dating? - which btw is a total rip off. help thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, AngellicaWaters  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 The best place for you to find someone is probably in a place where looks are not focused upon. If you have any hobbies or interests, try to find a place you can go where people who have the same interests and hobbies get together.
This would be a great place for you to meet women you can talk to and talking leads to a connection and that is what ultimately begins interest in dating someone.
If you can connect with a woman intellectually and romantically, your looks (whether they are stellar or not so much) won't matter as much and you will find women interested in more than just how you look. If you really push yourself to talk and try to make connections, you could find a date.
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reader, kokopebbles +, writes (1 July 2009):
You have probably heard this a million times. But i will tell you it, in spite of emphasizing an important point! Looks are not everything, ok yes to some degree looks matter but you have to factor in the personality as well.
It seems to me that you are rather uncomfortable with yourself, which is not good. If you want to make a favorable impression on girls then you have to be comfortable with yourself. It doesnt matter how "tall" you are or how "hot" you are, if you have low self esteem it will show and it will keep potential girlfriends away. I know because i have seen it happen before. Most girls, myself included, go for guys who are interesting, sweet and funny. Yes, as i have stated before, looks do matter to some extent, but what matters most is being true to yourself and others. Dont get all frustrated with your looks, because looks do not last as long as a good personality. If you want to attract women then be sure to look clean cut. Also try to be casual and friendly...don't come on to strong when you meet a pretty girl, it will scare her. And to answer your last question, a place that has a ton of women; the shopping mall. Women love to shop. You will have plenty of opportunities to interact with women at the mall. Best of luck :)
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