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writes:hello... so here i'm stuck in a tricky situation.i go to a catacism class every week on a wednesday, and theres this girl who goes there. i dont really like her too much, and she asked me out, but i said 'i dont know' (worst thing to say ever). anyways, she has big issues, calls me one day and is all crying about how she is going to kill herself, etc, etc. i saw here again and she had marks on her neck as if she tried to hang herself. anyways during the conversation somehow i agreed to go out with her. (i dont really want someone killing themselves, but i get the odd fealing ive been played...) now my problem is i dont want to go out with her, but i have no clue how i could break up with her. like i said, she has issues. also the fact that i'll be seeing her for every week on a wednesday complicates things more.help me please Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (12 February 2008):
 I agree with Dida -- tell somebody about this worry. You aren't responsible for what she does to herself, but someone needs to know that she may be hurting herself!
Ask the teacher of the class, or your mum or dad or the head of the school you're in for some help. Don't be shy about it; you may just be getting her the help she needs. And you might not be the only one worried about her!
Good luck to you.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (12 February 2008):
 Oh god, it sounds like she's sort of guilt tripping you into going out with her. This girl needs to get help, you should never have said maybe in the first place. Maybe you could try and be freinds with her? say I like you as a freind. Just don't show up or something, she sounds very weak at the moment.
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reader, didapoo +, writes (12 February 2008):
 first of all, I really think that you need to tell either your parents, or one of the teachers because A: she may be serious, and if she said that it could actually be a cry for help; and B: you should never feel obligated to go out with someone. Thats not safe for you or them. Also, try to be her friend. She might just be really lonely.
Hope this helps!!
Dida
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