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writes: Hey, I need help with this, I don't want to confide in anyone 'cause it seems outrageous but I'm stuck with these feelings and it's really unconfortable. See, I've been chatting with this guy on MSN for about a year or two now, and we were friends at first but soon I started calling him to chat casually and I started becoming "attached" to him. I itch to call him everyday and seem to think of him when I'm not occupied too. He's nice and I know his background and stuff although we've never met.And that's the problem... It will be very awkward if I ask him out as my boyfriend because 1) WE'VE NEVER MET 2) I don't know if he likes me back 3) I study overseas, countries away from where he is. And I'm not even sure if I like him in person though I know how he looks like and everything. I tried to pull myself away and managed for 'bout 6 months although I constantly check his Hi5 and think about him sometimes. And even when I've tried not talking to him by deleting him from my MSN and not calling him, I still feel hurt seeing other girls commenting his Hi5. It gets me wondering if I'm just one of those girls and am nothing special to him. So after 6 months, he suddenly chatted to me, out of the blue(we broke of because of an argument, and I didn't want to be the first to talk, neither did he, so it lasted for 6 damned months), I don't know why he bothered anymore. But after that, I'm now attached again and am wondering if I should just follow my heart and call him whenever I like which is practically every night, since I can only call him during my holidays when we're in the same country anyway. Or sort things out with him -through phone, or meet up with him and confess my feelings, or pull myself away. I don't want to appear desperate or anything.I very confused, and need a good piece of advice on this matter. Thanks so very much:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): you need to ask him if he likes you
if you do meet up with him take one of your friends with you not only will it be safer but they can support you
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