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I don't understand why our relationship is this way! Any advice?

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Question - (15 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

in the begining we met and became friends and both were showing attention in each other, physically, teasing etc ... then we became closer n closer..

anyway later on i kissed her after two months of knowing each other then she sent me a message saying like im confused n i wanna to stay friends this time, the future will decide so i said ok.

she began to feel jealous and i dunno why?!, then i had a problem with her so i didnt want to talk with her n i ignored her, then she said that why u were ignoring me last days, what did i do? she said i want u to be normal and its not good to ignore me!

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i learnt something that whenever i ignore her she ignores me back or hurt me in one way or another, i went for a holiday to my friend and didnt call her much cuz i couldnt and when i came back i called n said that i wanna see her then she asked why?, i said cuz i miss u and i knew she wasnt ok or i have done something wrong so she did not accept to see me!! and she was rly mean against me !

but after that she sent sms saying only sorry..

now i dont talk with her these days cuz of what she did to me but i see her rly sad and its obvious that she isnt feeling ok as i do

i like her, i want her, i dont wanna ignore her but i dunoo why things going out of control and to be just like that? i dont know why things going like that!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010):

I think she is the kind of girl who needs alot of attention. She may not have feelings toward you like you do her but she still wants all your attention and gets jealous when other people get that and she doesn't. I am this type of girl too. If i know someone likes me and i don't necessarily like them, i will lead them on and want them to only look at me. I don't know how much that will help.

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