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writes:Well, basically I don't understand men at all, whatsoever at the minute, so I have come here in desperate need for some advice.I met a boy not long ago, he took my number, but never passed on his. Today, he text me saying..."I miss you shorty" as I was on vacation this weekend.I replied "Gorgeous, guess what? I miss you too. Gah, that made me smile, although it's freezing at the bus stop!!"and he replied "Pft, I thought it was warm today ;). I would've text you over the weekend but my ex was over :( not good. xx"I replied "Your ex? Awkward..."He replied "Yeah it was amazing. Best weekend of my life! Pftttttt... I did get a roast dinner off my mom though :D how was the sea? xxx"I replied, "So she slept over then? And Wells was good thanks"He replied "Yeah, she did. She still has a key, and we have loads of stuff to sort out, I've still got some of her stuff ect. plus she wants to be with me still. I just wanted to be talking to you :( but anyway how was your weekend? xx"I replied "Sounds like someone had fun this weekend" sarcastically hinting, did you have sex with her?And he replied "What are you trying to get at there shorty? ;) x"I said "Hope you didn't break the bed. LOL."He replied "Haha, is that a hint of jealousy there ginger spice? My bed is already broken anyway, hahah. x"I replied "Broken? Ouch. And aren't I aloud to be a little jealous? ;)"He replied "Ha, only a little bit broken, I need to go to ikea and replace the broken part. You can be jealous when you have something to be jealous of. xxxx"I replied "So you were like complete saints and never shared the same bed? Because I'm bound to be jealous of you sharing a bed! ;) xx"He said "Yeah, we shared a bed, doesn't mean we have to share bodily fluids though :) x"I don't know what to think, I REALLY like this guy, he says he feels the same way and yet lets his ex sleep in his bed? I don't understand. I really want some advice, maybe some from the male perspective too. Thanks very much. 3
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reader, xAx +, writes (13 October 2010):
 i'd be less suspicious if he texted you that weekend.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 this why I contend texting id a joke..what the heck is wrong with just talking on the phone instead of pfftand lol etc. it's a third language full of pitfalls. Men are from mars and women are from venus-nuf said.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 Stay away from him. Somehow I get the feeling that this "ex" isn't actually an ex. I get the feeling like he's calling his GF an ex to get you on the line too. I'm basing this on my gut feeling so I may be wrong, but even if I am, he has some serious ex issues to work out before you could ever have a real relationship.
Even if he was being 100% truthful, what does that tell you? He has lots of stuff to sort out. How much baggage do you want to take on in a brand new relationship?
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