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anonymous
writes:Hi there.. Im 22 and my partners the same age. We hav been together for 4 years. i kissed someone else bout 2 yrs ago after yelling my partner for ages that i wanted more attention from him. I regretted it deeply and told him straight away. He forgave me. Then in feb this year he had been txting and hanging out with a girl when he was away for work as well as flirting on facebook. He has never been the cheating type and claimed he would leave me if he thought he would cheat. But that was not the case. I found the messages and it hurt to the bone. He cried and said he did it coz he missed the way we used to be. I took him bak. Then not long after i found out he was still talking to girls on facebook. That burnt me even more. He claimed to b this great giy but turns out he is like the rest. Im still with him and he hasnt cheated since but he goes away for again soon and im terrified. He doesnt aknowledge my feeling os the pain he has caused ans tefuses to talk bout it. What do do. I feel i should leave but i love him. And i hav a little girl to. It would break our family.. But im scared to get hurt again. I cry myself to sleep... Im paranoid and insecure. Im going insane. HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2012): Get into therapy now. That exact thing happened to me but he went away to train for the military and met her there. We went into therapy after I discovered it and now we are getting even stronger than before.
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