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writes:not sure how to start.... I met this new guy at work around August 2009. He works at our office in another state but he came down to this state to work for a few weeks. Well, we immediately caught on each others eyes. It was attraction from both of us but all the time he was here, we never talked but we both knew that we liked each other a lot. But soon enough he had to go back to our main office in another state. During this time, one of my best friends was not talking to me. Coming to know later on, once my friend started talking again, that she also liked him. I didnt know how to tell her that I also liked this guy a lot and that we were also communicating through Instant Message ever since he left and in our conversations we were already flirting with each other even though I think that he got disappointed when I told him that I had kids. The instant messages ended little by little.Well, I had to tell my friend what was going on and we were both like .... oh! I told not to worry about me because he had stopped talking to me ever since he found out I had kids. Anyway, the next time he came down to our office, he was just flirting with her a lot and not with me anymore. I left it alone and my friend seemed happy that he was flirting with her. He was here for a few weeks then, he left.He came back this February, the week of the 22, only for this week. The first day, Monday, somehow, my friend and him ended up going to dinner together and that's it. The next day, Tuesday, somehow, not sure how but I think my friend asked him to go walking to the trail with her. He agreed. Well after the walk they went to dinner, then he asked to go get a drink somewhere. So they did. After this, she had to drop him off at his hotel and he asked her to come in. She says nothing happened, because they were just kissing and he was only touching her breasts but nothing else, no clothes came off ever. She thinks that he just wanted a bj. But that she was expecting more and he seemed not willing to do more with her so she didn't give him a bj. And, during this she also told him that she is a virgin and he said, that she shouldnt do this with him but should do it with somebody special. So according to her, nothing happened other than the kissing. She slept over in his bed and nothing else happened. She says that he kept on asking her about me and this guy that I was dating. That he wanted to know more about that. I know that he was also asking other people about me, if I was dating anybody and somebody did tell him that I am in love with this other guy. On Friday, his last day. We all went to lunch and he stayed back with me and said "You're in Love with ...." I said No, because is the truth and that is a passed relationship and is over.I really really like him but it seems to me that he also likes my friend. Maybe more because he spent more time with her. But he still looks at me like he likes me but he's unsure if I love someone else.I don't know what I should do, or if I should do anything. Or maybe just leave it alone because he really doesn't like me. What can you say?
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