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writes:i dont know how to get my ex out my head. we were only together for a few months, he broke up with me through my sister. he had no reason as far as i know. the day after he broke up with me he got with my sister they were seeing each other for about a week before i found out. they both felt guilty when i found out because they both knew how i felt. i loved him and i still do. i have tried everything to get him out my head but nothing seems to work. i dont care what happened between him and my sister cause i love him and i have forgiven both of them. his sister never liked the idea of us going out. last week my mate sent a message to him off my phone saying that i love him and want him back. a few days later i found out that he would have got back with me, but he listend to his sister who was making things up about me. i feel like i need to talk to him and i have asked him to meet me but he never turned up, so its obvious that he doesnt want anything to do with me. i need to stop thinking about him but i cant get him out of my head. what can i do? please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): i am having the same problen right now. i broke up with my gf, 4 weeks ago and she didnt give me a reason why. the way that ive been dealing with it is that i keep playing all the good times weve had together over and over again. when u feel so deeply for someone, you just cant erase them from your life. you have to embrase it and slowly let the pain go away. it will, trust me. love is a little word with such a big meaning. some people understand the word better than others. it scares them.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 March 2007):
 He's definitely move on now and isn't interested any more. You could maybe say to your sister to let him know that you're not the horrible person that his sister's portrayed you to be. If anything, remain friends for now and if anything develops at a later date then fine. Here is a website that will be of some help to you.
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up
You need to move on now and don't keep dwelling on the past. You are still very young, get out there and meet new people, have fun! The right person may just be round the corner.
Eve
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