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writes:Hi, I'm 20 and I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, the first year was awesome but the next few months weren't and it's all my fault. She is my best friend's ex girlfriend and she kinda left him for me but me and him are still friends but these last few months I have been thinking how our relationship started and it scared me like if she can do that to him why wouldnt she do it to me and I started second guessing her every move and not trusting her and questioning her to death and finally we broke up recently about a week ago and i took a 7 hour drive to my grandparents alone for thanksgiving and it made me realise how dumb I was and how ignorant and sorry I am and that I should live my life in fear cause then life isn't worth living and I have changed I know I have but she doesn't believe me and she wants to be friends thats it. I can't do that, I still love her more than anything in the world. She says she is still in love with me but she won't give me another chance, she says she can't right now. What do I do? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe told me that she changed now and she doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore not with just me she said period with no one and she doesnt know what will happen in the future but she wants to friends in the mean time how do i do that when im still so much in love with her and she says shes still in love with me
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (28 November 2007):
 It is not completely wrong of you to think that way, but it has been a long time you have been together since that happened...does she show you that she cares about you and that she is faithful and trustworthy now? It probably hurt her that you don't trust her, so you should let her know that you are sorry and you were wrong and that you do trust her and then leave her alone for awhile to make up her mind.
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