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writes:Guys, please help! My friend's boyfriend hasn't called her in a week+ and she's freaking. A girl answered his phone and said she was his girlfriend....my friend calls me, hysterical. Her boyfriend's jealous and a little possessive, she's thinking he's mad at her because she has guy friends and lied to him about deleting her facebook. My friend has been calling and calling, he never picks up. She's also scared that he freaked because she told him she wanted his baby. I don't know what to do...this guy took her virginity and everything. I don't want this to end badly. I don't even know how to comfort a friend! I feel helpless and useless! Help me! Please!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Did he break up with her without her knowing? Has she tried driving past his house to see if there are any unrecognizable cars there? Personally, I would tell your friend it looks like he broke up with her, proceed to bad mouth this loser, and tell her she's better off without his cheating ass. In my day I could relate to your friend, so what my friends did for me to completely distract me was every weekend we had a girls night. Our girls would get together on Fri after school, and sleep over all weekend..we would go to the movies and watch a raunchy comedy, if you're old enough get dressed up to the nines, hit the clubs, bars and dance the night away. Flirt with men, get numbers but always go home safely with your gal pals. Saturday rolls around, rent a stack of sappy love movies, have a ton of snacks on hand, stuff your face with Dorito's while dabbing your eyes during Atonement when James Mcavoh dies and Keira Knightly drowns in the tunnel.
Your friend is going to make her own decisions on how to handle the situation the only you can do is listen, offer your advice on the matter if she asks, and offer your support.
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