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writes:I've been sleeping with this guy for 2 months now. He callsme very day - wants to see me. When we hangout , he tells me how much he likes me, etc. Makesme feel very special. Now the negatives: 1) he drinks a lot. He is 37 and parties until 4 am at least 4 nights a week. 2) he does coke on occassion. And the clincher - he let it slip that he was "on a break" with his ex instead of broken up with her.I had sex w him last Saturday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday. I contacted her after I noticed she was calling/texting at 2am. She says she slept over Sunday.I totally got played, right?!? I thought I was special.Why put all that work in - seeing me 4 times a week- calling every day ; telling me how happy I make you- if it's all a lie?!? Seems like a lot of work, no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: I told him we are just going to be friends. I will still have to see him out at parties. We are part of the same social circle. I'm sure he will have another girl on his arm in 2 weeks. But better that I saved myself from months of heartache and always wondering who is in his bed when I'm not around.
3 mutual acquaintences told me he is a womanizer and to watch out. I probably should have listened. Oh well. Live and learn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): Ahh another reason why nice guys like me are outta business and resort to massive weight lifting. Well, former nice guy I should say. Its not like Im gonna go and drink and snort nose candy just to be with a woman.
I think this guy is all words and very immature. He parties?? I mean, get that outta your system when youre younger so you can establish yourself with a meaningful relationship. Second, he's dishonest about his ex. Third, he's manipulative and men like that deserve a barbell rammed up there a$$. Id be glad to shove the 120 up there.
If this guys actions dont add up to his words, even the logic Gods would say that formula doesnt work for a good relationship. Best to you miss.
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