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writes:I have this problem with a guy from my work lets call him M. He is really attractive but i would never wanna go out with him as i have a bf and he has a gf we used to get along really well and we would chat and have a laugh,then everything changed he wouldn't talk to me,told someone he hated me,and kept causing arguments.When i got told that he said he hated me, i felt a bit upset naturally when i hadn't done anything for him to hate me because of. Then one night after work he said "I'm sorry if i upset you the other day" i said "i dont care what you think of me" and walked off. he then told someone that i slammed a door in his face when i never. now he only speaks to me when he has to and things are really uncomfortable between us. i regret being nasty to him and want him as my mate again. Can anyone tell me what i should do? thanks xx
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reader, carlyuk +, writes (5 May 2008):
carlyuk is verified as being by the original poster of the question I don't think that i could talk to him about this. What about if he turns me down like i did to him? I am scared of rejection.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 May 2008):
He's a really attractive guy who has a girlfriend yet became quite good friends with you....
My immediate thought is that his girlfriend has got upset about you and demanded he never speaks to you again.
Next time you have a chance simply ask him why things between you have gone wrong. Tell him you want to be his work mate and you don't like that it's not nice between you.
Hopefully he should open up and you can sort it out like adults.
Good Luck!! xx
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