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I didnt bleed when I lost my virginity and my boyfriend couldnt feel anything, now he thinks I was not a virgin!

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Question - (18 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2010)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend disvirgins me,he doesnt feel anything.i dint lose any blood when i was disvirgined and am sad bcos my boyfriend said he wasnt the one that disvigined me.pls help because it is normal for a guy to feel something within when he disvirgins a girl.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (19 May 2010):

Nope, but it is normal to feel anger at a guy who doesn't trust a woman that loves him.

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (18 May 2010):

TimmD agony auntEach girl is different. Your boyfriend should know that. Not every girl will "de-virginize" the same way. Your boyfriend should just trust you and enjoy the fact that you were his first. If he can't understand that, then maybe he's not somebody you should be with.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010):

when you lose your virginity not all women bleed not all women experience pain and not all women actually still have the hymen which is probably what your boyfriend ment wen when he felt nothing. just tell him that alot of women dont bleed and stuff because thy may have worn out the hymen which is normal or due to excercise or horse riding then its already gone. reassure him and dont worry too much about what he sed about this all some men just dont know the facts. you are one of the lucky women who dont experience pain or bleeding and that a blessing i say. good luck xx

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