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writes:Hey I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of over a year. She lives about 8 hours away and is starting her freshman year at college. She recently got drunk and let a guy bring her back to her dorm and they kissed goodnight before they left. She ended up telling me about 3 days after it happend because she felt like she was letting me down. I told her I was pissed but I forgave her as soon as I could find it in me to do so. It has been about 4 weeks since the incident and I haven't said anything about it since but I felt like I was almost too nice about it... or let her get off to easy. She still goes out partying and goes to clubs with her girlfriends but I did lose some trust because now I know she loses her guard when she is drunk... any suggestions?
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reader, benefattore +, writes (16 October 2008):
 They kissed goodnight? I'm sorry, but you ARE way too nice. Rarely, in this society these days, does it ever "just end with just a kiss goodnight." - especially when drunk... You need to have a SERIOUS talk with her and make sure she isn't lying to you.
One of my lady friends cheated on her boyfriend with another guy, and when confronted she said "they just kissed" and broke it off before things got too out of control.
I'm not saying your girlfriend is 100% cheating, but you have to watch your own back because long distance relationships are extremely hard. The longer she spends time with other guys, the more likely her feelings for you will dissapear. If you're not emotionally and physically there for her, she will find comfort else where.
Good luck... you're in a crappy position and there's not much help anyone online can give you.
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