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writes:Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months now but last night i was in a party and i ended up cheating on my boyfriend with another lad. The thing was i dident feel guilty. does this mean that i dont like him anymore?? or does ths mean that i like the other lad and i dont feel guilty because it felt right?? im so confused. :( please help me. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Dony.J +, writes (16 March 2008):
Dony.J is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx to all of your advice, i finished woth my boyfriend, i dident feel as if i diserved him anymore, i also knew that i would do something like this again and dident want to hurt him anymore. I feel like such a bitch but i thought its been coming for a long time.
thanks all
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 Not necessarily at your age. I did this a lot in highschool and I think it's just curiosity and experimentation more than anything. I didn't have much of an attention span or much loyalty when it came to boys at your age. Believe me, I didn't feel guilty about it either or even give it a second thought. This will change as you get older and fall in love for the first time. LJ001 is right, it's very greedy but it's too much fun, isn't it?
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reader, starfairy +, writes (16 March 2008):
 People tend to stray because they're not totally satisfied with what they've already got. Do you feel you are lacking in your relationship? Do you feel you are settling for second best with your boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): To be honest, you're the only one that can tell yourself whether you like him or not. But one thing's for sure, this was unfair and he deserves to be told right away. The longer you leave it, the more devestated he will be. But next time honey, don't be so irresponsible and greedy - pick a guy and stick to him. Good luck.
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