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I can't move on...

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Question - (22 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi

me and my boyfriend broke up in the summer and since then he has moved on with a girl in my college. and i have tried so hard to move on-i've met some guys but i've never been that into them eventhough they are perfectly fine and i am trying really hard to be friends with both of them.

but the other day me and my friends all went out including my ex and his girlfriend and i got so awkward and jealous. i didnt know where to look, who to talk to, what to do.

it made me feel down and insecure and really, really want him back-even though i know they are going out. i felt resentment towards both of them and i dont want to feel like that- i want to be able to feel content with them

how can i move on? am i taking this too fast? do i need more time out on my own?

please help!

xo

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A female reader, bonbon Jordan +, writes (22 November 2008):

bonbon agony auntJust go out with some other guys...drop everything makes u remember him..his T-shirt,perfume and so on.always smile..try to be busy in somethings u really interested about..have a great life ..don't think about him ..he doesn't deserve you..show him that the show must go on Dear

with all my luck.

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (22 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntI know what you are going though! Its very difficult to heal from a broken heart, but you will eventually.

Stay away from him as much as possible. The less you see him, the easier it gets.

Your feelings are normal and difficult to deal with, but this is how it goes. Don't rush finding someone just to get over him. With patience, you will find the right boy.

You are so young to be this heartbroken. Try to keep away from sex for a few years if you can. That only makes life more complicated.

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