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*aggiemay
writes:I can't seem to look at my boyfriend while I'm giving him head! Like he looks at me when he's giving me oral and I find it sexy but I feel wierd if I look at him like we have been dating two years and I have never looked at him when I give him head. Can I do anything to help this problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (7 March 2010):
Try coming up with an alter ego. It sounds pathetic but it does work to help get rid of your inhibitions. I often have my boyfriend asking if 'Candy' is coming over tonight because 'she' does stuff that I would be shy to!!!!!
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reader, maggiemay +, writes (7 March 2010):
maggiemay is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone! And I do enjoy giving him head it's just I feel stupid looking at him, like I am scared to or something
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reader, Angzw +, writes (5 March 2010):
Could it be that you are a little shy and embarassed about looking at him during oral? If that is the reason, then you need to really forget about your inhibitions if you want to make the whole experience more erotic for him. The less inhibited you are, the more fantastic his experience will be. You don't have to lock eyes forever, just a sexy naughty glance while you are voraciously givng him oral should be enough to send shivers through him. If he thinks you are enjoying it then he will enjoy it more. So give him a look, especially since he has never had one it might make it a whole new erotic experience for him since he won't be expecting it.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 how can you give head without looking at him?I have given head to one guy and I kept seeing him to see his reaction.As for my ex,I never gave him head...I liked him a lot but I found his penis disgusting for some reason.Maybe you're not SEXUALLY into the guy?Ask yourself WHY you dont look at him?Do you feel nasty?If thats the case why do you give him head?Just cause he goes down on you?This can be a sign of insecurity.He feels he still gets what he wants but u dont really enjoy it,therefore u do something u dont want,therefore ur insecure.Congrats!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): It is really sexy when a woman looks you in the eyes while performing oral sex. There is no real advice I can give, but I have a feeling when you see the pleasure in his eyes that you're creating, it may help you overcome your issue.
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