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I can't get it out of my head that he's lost his virginity to someone else. How can I get over this?

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Question - (13 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hey :) well im 15 and so is my boyfriend and we were plaining on loseing are virgenity to each other next year when were 16. But i just found out he had sex over winter break. We were not dateing at that time but it still upsets me thinking thats his thing has been in another girl. i still love him so much but the idea of sleeping with him kinda grosses me out thinking of another girl being there. Can you please help me get over this cuz i know in the futer its not likely every guy you date will be a virgen. I hope that i will still be with him but still can any one help me get over this. Thanks for you help and time. P.s dont say im to young for sex cuz iv all ready made up my mind. thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010):

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hey thanks for all your answers. I worded the question wrong though. We were planing on loseing it togather but when we made that plan he all ready losed his. And he felt bad about lieing so he told me the truth and i forgave him cuz he realy is a good guy and he told me that before we were close so it wasnt really my busness then any ways. I just want to know how i can get over thinking about him doing that with that chick when were going to be doing stuff? thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010):

I think if you both had planned and areed this because you love each other he doesnt love you as much as dipping it about sorry to be so bold but if he would rather lose it quicker to some1 that is not important to him you cant mean that much to him please think somemore about this boy and see if he truly cares

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