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writes:ok this is sorta embarrassing but i give my boyfriend blowjobs alot right, but like i cant completely have his penis in my mouth...i can deepthroat, but it'll make me want to vomit if i do. but me and my boyfriend were talking about what he did with his ex and he said that she could basically swallow his whole penis. and now it makes me feel insecure to give him blowjobs because i can swallow all of it, i'll end up leaving maybe an inch and a half or so. but i dont know if anything can really be done, but if there is, what can i do to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): Here's some help... when a girl is sucking a guy, 90% of the time if she's using her hands correctly he can't even tell where her month ends and her hands start. Most girls have no idea how to use their hands as an extension of their mouth, but once you learn you guy will swear you're a sword swallower.
Wrap both your hands around his shaft and hold them against your lips. Keep your hands tight against your lips to create the illusion that you mouth is longer and keep you hands wet. He'll be blowing his load in no time!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (17 August 2008):
 While I fully agree with others that neither you nor your boyfriend should be making comparisons between you and his ex, some girls can relax their throat enough to do as you explained. As a heterosexual male, I wouldn't know how, but I do know that it is a matter of extreme relaxation and overcoming the gag reflex. Some women I have known did it very slowly, just a little at a time until it was mostly buried - which usually causes almost immediate ejaculation. Another position is with the girl on all fours at the edge of a bed. Man stands next to the bed and inserts into her mouth. Her neck is extended because her head is tilted up, and deeper penetration may be much more comfortable. Providing you have previously been thoroughly satisfied through cunnilingus or intercourse, this is a particularly good way to conclude an evening's activities with ejaculation. Guess why.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): Its not a competition. If he prefers his ex tell him to go back and be with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): Tell him to stop talking about his ex, and to focus on you! You are unique, and you have many other things going for you. Do you even enjoy sex with him? Are you comfortable blowing him? Because if you don't you should not feel pressured.
Find other ways to please him, ways that you are comfortable with. And equally important, make sure that he pleases you as well. If sex makes you feel insecure it means that your relationship is not healthy. Either change it, or get out of there quickly, because this might affect you negatively for years to come.
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reader, nh3techlead +, writes (17 August 2008):
the big question for him is, who does he want to be with, his ex or you. If he's telling you about what is ex did for him or to him in bed, then why is she his ex? But for you, what you are trying to do, gives she very high marks, most girls wouldn't even try. Just give it time, look my girlfriend won't even try giving me a BJ, but I enjoy being with her, which more then makes up for being in bed.Try this, if he really wants a very deep, and strong suck job.... then hand him the end of the vacuum cleaner hose, and turn it on. of course be prepared, he might want you to sit on his face while he has the hose attached.
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reader, n00dl35 +, writes (17 August 2008):
 hun, don't compare yourself to his ex. he's with you now and that's all that matters. everyone's different so don't stress. i'm sure it still feels good for him. just relax. take care xx
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