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I can't decide who I want more: my FWB or my ex boyfriend

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Question - (16 April 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone,

i was in a fwb arrangement then i met my boyfriend who is now my ex.

i am drawn completely to my fwb he is also the same with me. when were together the sex is amazing but the problem is i still love my ex boyfriend but i cant get enough of my fwb.

there is a chance me and my ex maybe getting back together.

what should i do?

thank you

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (16 April 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwell if I was interested in having a relationship with someone I would NOT want someone who was already involved with someone else. So my take on this is as long as you are with your "fwb" (and I'm not sure he really is a pure FWB) then NO I do not think you can get your ex back.

You say you can't get enough of your FWB and he feels the same, so are you calling it FWB because you still want your ex? What makes it FWB?

If you want your ex back then you should be willing to give up a fuck buddy. IF you are not then you have feelings for your "fwb" and if he does not return those feelings you will be setting yourself up to be hurt.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (16 April 2013):

Is amazing sex more important than having a relationship with your ex? BTW, what makes you think your ex and you will succeed when you failed before? Has there been a fundamental change?

If you really can't decide, maybe they'll be okay with an open relationship.

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