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writes:Ok so i am in a sticky situation me and my bf broke up nearly 2 months ago, we still have really strong feelings for eachother, only problem is he has started seeing someone else now.Me and my ex bf fell out for quite sometime things were really awkward, eventually we started talking and decided to meet up since then everytime we have met up we havent kept our hands off eachother.He keeps saying how much he likes me but he is still with her, we have hung out everyday this week so far and things got really heated monday but neither of us regretted it, today we met up again and he told this had to stop next thing i know we are at my house in bed with one another.It didnt feel awkward at all it felt right and natural and i didnt feel like i was being used for sex, we both knew it was more.Do i keep doing this, he obviosuly has no respect for his gf not that i care, i just dont know what to do do i tell his gf or do i remain his dirty little secret?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
 If it really meant more he would have finished with his girlfriend and come back to you by now. I'm sorry but while it meant more to you I'm fairly sure it was just sex to him.
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reader, caraduddy +, writes (17 January 2007):
 I am having a simelar problem , theres a lad i really REALLY! love and we do things and then he goes off with other people and once he was with someone but was doing things with me but its obvious he doesnt want to be with me but we get along really good . You don't want this guy falling out with you for telling her . I think you should have a talk with him and tell him to make his mind up and stop playing with your head. hope things get sorted xx
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reader, TDMB +, writes (17 January 2007):
 It's certainly not up to you to say anything to his girlfriend. It sounds to me like he still had feelings for you - and sometimes when two people are no longer together and trying to have a relationship, the pressure is off and the sex can be great - but it's not a 'real' situation.
He is fooling himself and being very unfair to his girlfriend at the moment and he really needs to sort himself out. It also depends what you want. Do you want him back or not? If you do, you have to stop sleeping with him - it can't do either of you any good in the long run. I know it's hard if the feelings are still there but as long as you let him have the best of both worlds he probably will!
On the other hand - if you don't really want him back and you're just enjoying the attention (which is quite understandable after a break-up) then really you should let him go and leave him to see if he can make a go of it with this new girl - either way, carrying on as you are isn't good!
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