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I asked my ex girlfriend if she's dating someone else. What does her answer mean?

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Question - (5 December 2012) 8 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2012)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I asked my ex girlfriend if she is dating someone and her answer was "I'm not going to answer that".

I've been told that she means it is none of mine business. But is she still interested in me?

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A female reader, idontevenrecognisemyself United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2012):

Right,

I think considering the fact that she is your ex girlfriend, this means you need to accept that and move on. You don't need a girlfriend to be happy, just have fun with friends, etc. To he honest, she probably did mean it's none of your business, because I don't meant to be blunt but your relationship is over, so maybe you just need to work things out and explore things on your own until you meet the right person. :)

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A female reader, CANDY61 United States +, writes (6 December 2012):

When she said she's not going to answer that, that means she with someone else and didn't want to hurt your feelings so you might want to cut all contacts and move on.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 December 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI can't improve on what Cerberus said.

If you want to know if she is interested in seeing you again ASK her like an adult.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (6 December 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntWhat difference does it make??????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2012):

It means exactly what she said. She won't answer that.

is she interested? Ask her. Don't pussy foot around trying to get little details, show some balls, tell her you want her back if you do.

You're not going to win back a woman by being a information gathering pussy, or even giving a damn whether she's seeing someone, you'll take her back anyway.

Personally though an ex is an ex for a reason, you should stay away and move on.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (5 December 2012):

Aunty BimBim agony auntLet me get my crystal ball and you can cross my palm with silver.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2012):

Dude, those people were right when they told you it was none of your business.

Obviously you're not over her and she probably knows that and she doesn't want you either thinking you have a chance with her if she's single or getting sulky and upset if she's not.

I am sorry, but you probably need to back off and calm down if you want her to answer any questions you have because she doesn't actually have to answer them if she doesn't want to.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 December 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntThere is nothing in what you wrote to suggest that she is still interested. You need to talk to her about that. But my guess is she never answered you because it is her personal life and you are her ex so yeah she probably thought it was none of your business. She is an ex for a reason so if you are wanting her back you need to establish what that reason was for you both breaking up and talk to her about how you feel.

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