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I asked my best friend to remove my ex from his Facebook, but intead he sends him a birthday message!

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Question - (31 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *eldana writes:

Hey Guys got an issue with Fb. I have posted time and again on this site and you always seemed to say the right thing; Anyways the issue I am having is with my ex. I posted a question about him early but needless to say he's been on my mind again after a 6 month break up.

Today is my BF's Birthday and he happened to be friends on facebook with my ex. Well, when I logged on again I've asked him to remove him from FB and now when I saw the happy birthday post I got jealous. I don't know if I should try to friend him as well or if I should just try to ignore it... So yea I'm little frustrated. It doesn't help that My bf wanted to see my diary and got pissed off at me for stuff I wrote in it. It's like everything I tend to do it being squashed. Help!

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A male reader, Andy00 United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2011):

Andy00 agony auntBlock your ex on Facebook. If seeing him on there only annoys you then what is the point of having him on there? Blocking him is the best way to solve that part of your problem. As for your bf, let him be friends with whoever he likes! You have no right to tell him who he can and cannot be friends with, none whatsoever, just like he has no right to read your diary.

I think your relationship with your bf needs a little more respect than you're both giving it. Best friends or not, there has got to be some restrictions. You can't control what either of you's do and for the good of your friendship, I feel that that is something you both need to accept.

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A female reader, neomum United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2011):

get over it your bf can be friends with anyone he likes STOP controlling him and everything around him. How would you like it if the roles were reversed. If you cannot get over the ex why in hell are you with your new bf.

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