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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi,You see, I've always ask this girl out on a date this past months but I keep getting rejection.She's a super cute girl , top of class and a bit tall. But Im taller. I obviously know that she has a crush on me. Whenever I report on class she always stares at me but when I look to her she looks away, completely flustered. This past week I've ask her out one last time but she rejected me. She says "School first, boys later". I'm not into labels actually I just want to spend time with her. Get to know her.So what should I do? Should I keep asking her or give up anyway? I'm head over heels on this girl. Please help.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012): Give up. Regardless of whether or not she likes you, she's not interested in dating you. Like she said, school comes first for her. Liking someone doesn't always mean wanting to be more than friends with someone. Maybe you can't understand now but someday you will. Leave her alone before she finds you annoying. Find someone who likes you AND wants to get to know you more.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 June 2012):
 I'd stop. There's a fine line between being persistent and making a pest of yourself, and you might have crossed it if you kept asking her out several times along the months, and she always said no.
She might have told you the truth, that she has no time for boys, - or you might have misread the signals and that was just her polite way to brush you off, being not as interested as you think.
Either way, you have to respect what she says and assume she MEANS it. Yeah,...perhaps there is a very very remote chance that she is playing games and enjoying make you pant after her, but if it is so,... you aren't missing anything at all !
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