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writes:Hello I am writing to see if someone can help me, me and my girlfriend recently broke up and I still am very much in love with her. We talk as friends on a daily basis and I have told her that I wanted to be with her again and that I still love her. She tells me that she still loves me and I believe her but she says she can't be with me right now and I am afraid she has moved on. I am terrified of the thought of her being with someone else, whenever this thought crosses my mind I begin to cry. I was hoping that someone could tell me what my next action should be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): That is a fear that we ALL go through. And it sucks. But it is a part of life.As for her not wanting to be with you, there is not much you can do but accept her wishes. It's painful, and you are not alone. Everybody has been through that at one time or another, if it makes you feel any better. Just be strong. And continue living your life. Time heals all wounds. Your pain will subside. Give it time.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (11 August 2007):
 No contact at all! Sounds final, and it is! But seriously, its the only way you will move on. I split with my ex numerous times, only to try & stay mates for the childrens sake (mine adored his) but it just doesnt work to be honest. You end up getting back together & you're back to square one in a relationship thats not actually what one of you wants.
It hurts but it will hurt a lot longer if you stay in contact.
Cold turkey is the only way im afraid :o(
Good luck
C xxxxx
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