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I am supposed to be meeting this man for the first time, but he restarted his online dating profile!

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Question - (3 November 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2009)
A female Ireland age 22-25, *yn123 writes:

i met a man on an online dating site almost three mnths ago and we have been txting by phone ever since. he made big deal bout deactivating his account because he didnt need it anymore coz he fond me.of course i didnt believe that and gla i didnt now coz he is back on that site the last 2 weeks. i am meant to be meeting him this saturday and rite now i dont eel too comfortable bout meeting a liar. should i just go ahead and meet him anyway withoiut saying anything bout this? after all it only one nite or should i mention it to him?

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A female reader, rhythmandblues2 United States + , writes (3 November 2009):

rhythmandblues2 agony auntSorry for the double post, I am having trouble with the site.

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A female reader, rhythmandblues2 United States + , writes (3 November 2009):

rhythmandblues2 agony auntDon't meet him, wast of time, player, too lazy to meet women elsewhere, using the internet dating thing as a way to pick up chicks like a meat market only better....there is no driving from bar to bar and no money spent on buying drinks and no DUI's. He spun you a line right off the bat, it will only get worse from here

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A female reader, rhythmandblues2 United States + , writes (3 November 2009):

rhythmandblues2 agony auntThis is not a guy worth your time, he is an on line predator and using it as a lazy way to pick up chicks. We used to call bars meat markets, now a lot of men on line are doing the same thing from the comfort of their home, think what they must save in gas and booze!

I am sure there are some genuine guys on line, this is not one of him. He spun you a line of sH-- about how into he was and he had never even met you. Tell him if you wanted that kind of sh--, you'd squeeze his head, lol.

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A female reader, Ask oldersister United States + , writes (3 November 2009):

Ask oldersister agony auntPlease don't meet this person, don't even bother when they are already trying to deceive you. The fact he was going to deactivate his account before he even met you face to face was weird enough, really.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009):

i would not meet him he sounds like a player to me......

why did he spin u that bull b4 u even met ?? take it as a warning dont meet hm and delete his number......ur mr.right is still out there i really dont think this is the fella for u

best of luck xxx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom + , writes (3 November 2009):

I would say meet him, but make sure it's in a public place that's safe, and make sure he doens't try to use you. Don't bring it up, but take the relationship very slowly. He may be a bit of a player who is now trying his luck with other people, so don't be used by him. Hope it all works out for you.

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