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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:The guy I dated for several months moved away and I'm so heartbroken. I was always independent and never had a real relationship til this guy, and now I can't stand being alone! I feel so sad and lonely all the time, and would do anything to meet someone and fall in love. I know I sound desperate, but someone please tell me they've felt the same way and then got over it and actually met someone!I'm so alone, even though I have friends, I want more, but I haven't met any guys that interest me and vice versa. i'm not sure what to do but every night i cry and cry, praying to meet someone special soon..arrch, i'm such a dumb girl but i need help!!!!!
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reader, problemmaganet  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 hey there,
first of all, you're not dumb. get that out of your head. love is special. not many people get to experience it in a good way. it's perfectly normal to feel sad over a relationship, but don't let it rule your life, especially if that someone isn't there. keep in contact the best you can, and if you can't, then cherish your memories and move on. you have a life. go hang out with your friends, have fun, and in time, someone that you care about and that cares about you will come and you can have another relationship. Guys might not have an interest in you that way, but they make some pretty awesome friends. Just have fun for now. =)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
You're not dumb. I think most people have felt this way at least once, so you won't be alone. But you have to give yourself time to get over this other guy before you can move on. If you're still heartbroken about him, then it makes you open to finding Mr Wrong over and over again, because bad guys always pick up on a woman who feels the way you do. Focus on getting over this guy, and just get out there and have some fun with friends. Maybe do a hobby where other men are, so you can just meet them and talk to them. You'll find another guy, but it's important that you get over this one first.
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