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writes: I need help on something.Theres a lad I like and I know he likes me as well he's always flirting with me also sticking up for me as well I am just scared he will ask me out again cause when a lad asks me out I always say no cause I think the lads are joking I am just paranoid about my body and my style. What do you think I should do I need help realy quick. The lad I like we are good friends and I dont want to fall out with as friends when we split up what do you think I should do??
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (28 April 2006):
 I think that if you like him, go for it. Why would he be joking around he you know that he ;likes you? he would not want to hurt you,. Therefore, would not joke around with something like that.good luckRobinaka advice gurl
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (28 April 2006):
 Why are you fighting it if you like him and he likes you?
Why always the natural answer is NO, you should believe in yourself a lot more as he would not be attracted to you if you looked awful.
Why do you also naturally assume that the relationship will end?
You need to be more positive and like yourself.
Why not say YES for a change as it would be such a blow to a guy to always say NO. It takes a lot for someone to ask another person out as they need to build up the courage and a knock back is just that. He may never ask again and then you would end up kicking yourself for saying NO as he won't keep asking.
Go with it and enjoy it. You sound like you are reasonally young and so what's the worst that could happen.
Enjoy your young life now. You may have fun at the end of the day.
I wish you good luck.
BFN
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reader, zhyid +, writes (28 April 2006):
First of all, calm down, don't worry about your body nor style, if someone likes you it will like you completely and won't worry about your body nor style, just relax and go out have a great time, and usually if a lad asks you to go out well i can asure you 95% of the time it won't be a joke. If you split up like you say talk and remain friens, here its up to you both to remain or not friends.Good luck!
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