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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Im a jelous person and i dont want it to ruin my marriage. Well i get upset and jelous if my husband give attention or talks alot to other women! I do not know why i do it... Please can someone give me advise what could i do to make it better. Because i dont want him to think i dont trust him i mean he is my husband! And i think he is starting to think that...
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reader, Nitru  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 I haven't been married ofcourse but I've had boyfriends and I've seen jealosy in my friends. Jealousy isn't bad, it's natural. The problem starts when theres too much of it. You can be a little jealous but most of the time you should try not to show it beacause it tends to not have good results. Maybe try to think that the woman your husband is talking to is hes good friend. Cos just cos he's married to you doesn't necesarily mean he can't talk to or even hug other women cos that way he'll probably just get sick of only you and things will go wrong. Basically what I do when I get jealous is try to either push it down and deny it or I start to think things like "I'm lucky cos I have him." And you're lucky to have your husband. And maybe try not to think of every woman as your enemy but more as your friend.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 February 2010):
Ask yourself why you feel so threatened. Have you been hurt before? Are you happy with yourself. You need to look at yourself and ask yourself why you are jealous.
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