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I am in a new relationship with a man who is uncircumcised and I have zero experience!

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Question - (23 August 2021) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2021)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am in a new relationship with a man who is uncircumcised and I have zero experience. I’ve read up a lot, but most of the information out there is quite medical and is good to know…..but I need some “hands on” advice… I don’t want to disappoint or god forbid injure him lol. Help me out with some straight tips, tricks and pointers!

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A female reader, RubyBirtle United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2021):

I'm experienced with both circumcised and uncircumcised penises and there is very little difference.... except for guy it's attached to. As the other aunties have said, different guys like different things so talk to him. Some uncut guys like their foreskin to be retracted all the way and others find it uncomfortable. Only he can tell you what he prefers.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (24 August 2021):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntIf you are close enough to already know he is uncircumcised, then surely you are close enough to admit this is new territory for you and to ask for guidance? Just like every woman is individual in how and where she enjoys being touched, so every man is different.

Good sex is about communication. Talk to him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2021):

1. Talk to him!

2. Don't pull the foreskin up above the glans/tip/head as it could be painful

3. But most importantly - talk to him.

Circumcised men can lose some of the sensitivity, so be gentle with your partner. He may be more sensitive than you're used to.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (24 August 2021):

Honeypie agony auntYou are in your 30's - TALK to him. Ask him what is the best way to be gentle and "bring joy".

It's a penis. It just still had the foreskin. THAT is it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2021):

He's going copulate the same way. Your oral on him, if you're into that, will be interesting -- in a good way -- you'll figure it out. Same safety rules apply. Straight tip: "a friend" told me get your tongue inside that extra foreskin, use fingers to sorta clamp it in-- flick. She wishes she could show you "hands on".

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