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*isspurple
writes:I'm happy in my relationship of a year and 3 months but I'm dreaming of my ex. We went through a lot of shit with his drug problem which eventually split us up although he told me he cheated on me in the past too. I was madly in love with him. He walked past my house the other day which may have sparked off a dream about him. One dream he was angry and had vampire teeth and said he wanted to kill me. The dream I just had was that he was in this house with me possibly living with me. He was acting jealous and looking at my phone to which I had 2 in my dream for some reason, then I laid in bed next to him and said, "You're all I need." I woke up shocked to think I would have said that in my dream as I am over him. I really don't know what to think now. I couldn't be happier in my relationship right now, my boyfriend is great. What on earth am I meant to think now? Help me dream interpreters or advice would be great.
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reader, misspurple +, writes (10 August 2013):
misspurple is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI had a dream about him again last night. But I was with a man and a little girl I don't know but was supposed to be my partner and his daughter. He just showed up in a big car and his friend came and spoke to me but he kept in the background and we all decided to go for drinks at a pub with a few of his friends. He never said a word to me in my dream he just kept in the background but I kept looking at him and he was looking at me. This is getting to me a lot. I don't know how I would feel seeing him in the street I usually pretend I don't see him and walk past. I haven't seen him in ages since that time going past my window. I'm really getting myself down about it like I want to cry..
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2013): Dreams are thought to be created when things that happened during the day are shuffled from short term to long term memory. As this happens, your mind interprets these as... Well often wierd things. The sighting of your ex and the feelings of his past visciousness couldve been interpreted together as an evil version of him in the first dream. As you were probably concerned about it, i bet the next day was spent wondering why you would dream about your ex when life was so good with your current boyfriend. You may worry your current boyfriend would respond with jealousy towards the dreams of your ex. It is easy to see how your mind would put these random snips of thought together as your ex- some jealousy- and a relationship. Together these things can be disturbing, but rest assured, the feelings of love in such a dream were probably from the days thoughts about your boyfriend.
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