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writes: About 2 weeks ago my girlfriend gave me my first blow job. It was great and all but I find that now I am very sexually frustrated. I get turned on a lot and long for her to do it again. But this isn't like the normal horny where you can just go mastuebate and be fine. Self pleasure doesn't really do anything for me anymore. It's so frustrating having these craving feelings and not being able to do anything about it. We won't be able to do it again for about 2 weeks and the thought of waiting that long is making it worse. I would never cheat on her, I just want to be able to control these urges. Thanks in advance
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (11 September 2013):
 This is "new toy" syndrome. After she gave you a blow job, any lesser pleasure simply dulls in comparison. This is common, and you being hyper-excited about what she did and the fact that you have to wait for another go is driving you crazy.
Let me help you here with something that even though it isn't her, it'll help ease some of that tension. It involves changing the way you masturbate and having a really vivid and active imagination.
Instead of getting into the shower or whatever you did for self-relief, get someplace where you are alone, close your eyes, and in your mind think about how her mouth felt on you. What her tongue did, what her hands did, what her body looked like. For like a minute, don't touch yourself...simply remember her smell, the smoothness of her hands in contrast to the roughness of your skin. The feel of your heartbeat she felt in her mouth.
Now, are you familiar with edging? It's the process of slowing bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm and staying at that plateau as long as possible. That's what you'll do. Slowly pleasure yourself matching her feel in your imagination and bring yourself to the brink and keep yourself there as long as possible. If lube helps bring the simulation closer to your imagination, then maybe you should use it, but not necessary.
At the last possible moment, when you feel you can no longer control yourself, bring yourself over the edge for an ear-pounding finish. Trust me, not only will that tide you over until you can see her, but it'll bring you a lot of relief.
Nothing will be as good as her, but this will help a bit more!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (11 September 2013):
There's not much you can do at that age to prevent sexual frustration, unless you have your own place and three or four girlfriends.
A word of advice: condoms suck but before you decide not to use one you should know that statistically, 1 out of 50 times you don't use protection she could get pregnant. Not to mention STDs...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2013): People your age and in love find it hard to keep their hands off each other. I suggest you follow the advice of the other two posters and take your hands off your GF and put them down below.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 September 2013):
 Why aren't you masturbating?????
Good luck...
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