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I am falling in love with my FWB. How can I encourage this relationship to be more?

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Question - (9 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi everybody me and this man my fwb met 5 months ago. we get on really well.

The problem is i am falling in love with him. i have tried not to but i can't help it.

this is the situation. he was with someone for a few year. she cheated on him. i was with someone who got my ex best friend pregnant. so we have both been hurt

i'm confused as to whether he wants more like i do. he comes around maybe once or twice a week but we dont always have sex. he sometimes just cuddles me and if im walking anywhere he always offers me lifts. sometimes throughtout the day i get texts from him with just kisses. i would love us to be a proper couple but before i talk to him about this i would like some opinions please thank you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011):

I would talk to him just to settle your mind, it's been 5 months and he probably assumes your still quite happy with the arrangement as it is.

Can't guess what his answer will be, but if it's a no then its probably best to know now so you can end it and move on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011):

If you want to talk to him fine. But its a FWB situation don't forget that and be prepared for any reply. If you're lucky you'll hear what you want if not, try not being in a FWB situation next time.

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