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writes: Okay, so this is going to sound beyond crazy, but I don't know what to do. Please don't laugh.. So, I really, really kind of like a guy, but the problem with it is, he's famous, and I've never met him. He's a rapper, and I absolutely love his music, and I love who he is himself. I literally sound crazzy to myself, but it's true. I like like this guy, and I don't really find it awkward at all to listen to his music, I just find it awkward to like a famous rapper, who I will never have a chance with, considering the fact he's 14 years older than me, and married at the moment. Lol. My question mainly here, is if it's normal to do this? And if there is ANY way to get over him, which doesn't include to stop listenin to his music, and stuff??
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): It's so normal, my future mother-in-law crushes on rappers! It's pretty funny! But as long as you know you won't actually end up with the person then it's completely natural : )
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 July 2012):
 Still waiting for Johnny D. to call...
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (30 July 2012):
 This is absolutely normal. In fact, I know 50-year-old women who have crushes on famous people and go bananas over them. Have fun with it and don't take yourself too seriously. Most of us never have a chance with someone famous but that is why a crush can be so much fun. You can fantasize all you want and it won't make one bit of difference. In fact, you'll probably get a laugh out of this, but when I was in high school, my girlfriends and I liked this certain band. Each of my girlfriends was "going out" with one of the guys in the band, and we would make up elaborate conversations about our lives with these guys. First thing in the morning at school we would ask one another "Hey, how's "guy's name here" doing?" and then all laugh hysterically. Pretty funny thinking back on that. You'll "get over" him soon enough when you find someone in real life you're attracted to.
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reader, ifiwereyou-x  +, writes (30 July 2012):
hello. i have been through this,allthough i was slightly younger than you at the time. my crush was on taylor lautner,teenage werewolf from the twilight series. i thought about him every day,had multiple pictures of him on my phone,watched his films as often as possible, and trawled the internet for interviews and behind-the-scene videos of him. how did i make it go away?i didn't. there is no way to make a crush 'go away',you simply grow out of it. firstly,you know you don't have a chance,not because you aren't good enough,but because there is almost no chance of you ever meeting this person in person. there is nothing wrong with you,it is completely normal. i have had 3 proper boyfriends since this crush i speak of,and none of them have had even the remotest resemblance to taylor lautner,looks or personality-wise. do not try to force yourself out of this phase,it will go as naturally as it came. hope this helps :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): Its not crazy, we've all been there at some point or another.
Crushes are natural.
Look at it as a phase, which really it is, and there no harm being done.
If you want to get over him then the best thing is time, and let the phase pass naturally. You could also keep reminding yourself that he's a lot older than you, he's married, doesn't know you exist, and it will never amount to anything...and tell yourself its pointless feeling this way about him.
Try listening to other music for a while too, you don't have to completely stop listening to his music but if it helps then just avoid it as best you can for a while so you're not reminded of him.
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