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writes: I don't know what to think. My husband really confusing me. Please help to figure out him, and give me some ideas. He is totally off sex, and I dont know why. He was very sexual person before. And than once he lost his erection 6 years ago at the middle of the intercourse, and since than, he doesn't touch me ,look at me , and when we try to have sex after I initiate , he is losing erection right away. Like foreplay is totally not possible, or doing anything to him, but for 6 years he never had a normal erection. He has no clue. He says, he doesn't ever think about sex. =Doctors ruled out every medical problem whatsoever.The psychologist had no clue.I dont know what to do. What do you think, what is going on? please help.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (20 March 2011):
 Sounds like something serious psychologically is going on. He needs to see a therapist to figure it out. Sex isn't just about him, it's not fair for you for him to refuse to get help. If he's unwilling to seek psychological help or think about pharmaceutical options, it may be time to find someone more willing to be sexual with you. It's amazing you've gone this long without. Is he willing to try to pleasure you other ways?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): He went overnight from being a very sexual person to having no interest in it whatsoever, for 6 years and counting???
How awful. Doctor couldn't identify the problem? Neither could his psychologist? Are you getting on OK otherwise? He's definitely not cheating?
You need to talk this through and find out why this is happening. I wish I'd a more helpful answer, but sadly I don't.
I hope you can get through it and make this work. If you can't - and I'd be very hesitant to say this in most other circumstances - I'd maybe possibly think about looking elsewhere (life is short)
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (20 March 2011):
 So he says living without sex, possably for the rest of his life is fine with him. But you are not. So what does he say you should do about your needs? Learn to live without it too? Or does he have anyother suggestions???
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