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writes:is my boyffriend gay?im in 10 years deep with kids. am i paranoid or is my gut feeling right? is my boyfriend gay? we met at a rave 10 yrs ago, he seems straight with all the hetero porns and magazines in his room and all the sex we had, however, i did find out that he made out with boys in high school. but we had a falling out when i broght a girl home,so i ran away 900 miles away with a dear friend and first love, while i was away my first love tried to convince me he was gay. i was unconvinced and talk to him 24-7 on the phone until 12 months later i was ready to take him back aand i moved back home. now we have two kids. he always wants anal. he talks hateful to me, no foreplay, no sweet words, touches, or deeds to make me feel loved.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 September 2010):
 Well, who cares if he's gay? He sounds like a jerk! Your last sentence said enough!!
As for your question, he may have just had a bi-curious phase in high school and he likes anal. That's not enough evidence to suggest that someone is gay. And not all gay guys are jerks, so the no touches and hatefulness... that has nothing to do with his sexuality, he just has a horrible way of treating you!!
But, there is always the possibility that he's gay. I don't know him, I couldn't tell you and you don't offer up enough evidence to have that be a sure thing. It sounds like you need to think about this relationship and consider if you really want to be with a guy who treats you so badly and makes you feel badly about yourself.
Good luck!
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