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writes:How do I tell my boyfriend I want him to last longer during sex without offending him? Also, how can I get him to last longer?
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reader, Dipsydoodlenoodle + ♥, writes (14 May 2008):
A BJ before hand would make him last longer - however the down side is that he has had his pleasure so maybe he won't want sex afterwards? If he does then I would have though if you did it all the time then he will not want the sex afterwards as much!
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reader, q1605  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 All that is good advice but think about the passion of the first. Thats when this encounter is fresh and new. The second and third nut will take longer, but it tends to be all about the just banging over and over and gets repetitive even for the guy. That first one is the magic one and with a little work can last plenty long enough. Don't even tell him just try to feel where he is in the experience. If you think he is close just slow him down. Tell him to slow down. dig your heels into his butt and physically restrain him a bit. Ask him if he is close and ask him to slow down and recover. If you meet his thrusts with your hips stop for a while. He can be right there and take a break of just 4 or 5 seconds and he can probably come right back at you.Jeez I need to get laid.
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reader, starfairy + ♥, writes (10 May 2008):
 If you make him cum first, he should last longer. The key to better sex is communication, you really have to be direct and upfront with what you want. You have to tell him you want longer sex, if he's offended, tell him you're being honest because you want to improve your sex life.
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