Do you think this new guy I have been seeing may have a fetish?
Q. Okay I am just curious, I know there are people out there who have bizarre fetishes and such. I am wondering if this new guy I have been seeing may have one. I am curious here.....he recently set his myspace status to "I love coloring ;)" It soun...
A. 25 June 2008: In the Sex and the City Film they are talking about sex and one of them doesn’t want that word said in front of her daughter, so they change the word to colouring. He’s obviously sent the film and thought it was funny. ... (read in full...)
Where can I communicate with lonely females without paying a fee or getting hooked up with the spam message?
Q. Does anyone know where you can communicate with lonely females without paying a fee or getting hooked up with the spam mess? I like to email back and forth about whatever, maybe adult content sometimes maybe other stuff. thanks...
A. 10 June 2008: Go on a search engine and type in "Free Chat sites". ... (read in full...)
Am I psychic?
Q. Heyy ! Im getting rather freaked out . I think i have physic ablilities. This has only happened twice but it only begun recently. First Occasion: I had a dream about a man in a bear suit in some toilets , the day later the exact same bear outfit +...
A. 5 June 2008: Stuff like that happens to me as well. I'll be sitting watching a film and then go "oh I've seen this, this happens..." then someone will say "but its the first time its been on tv" etc. That is just one example.
My most freaky examples... (read in full...)
When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off?
Q. When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off? My boyfriend and I live together, and he is always on, and when he isn't doing that it's porn. His love of video games is so juvenile and puts me in a...
A. 29 May 2008: As has been suggested, get out of the house together more. Ask him if he would like to visit some places/go for a night out, if he says no then you go yourself with friends and tell him how good of a time you had - he will start to get jealous and ... (read in full...)
I do love him, but we can't compromise on religion!!!!! What should we do?
Q. Hi...i am wondering how many of you have married someone who is of a different religion than you are? If you did, how long did it last? Were there any major issues? My fiance and I are of two different religions and I can't imagine what it ...
A. 29 May 2008: A maybe simple solution would be if you did marry him and have kids, you bring your kids up with 2 religions and let them choose which one/both/none or different religion they would like to accept.
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Saw her in a shop, and want to meet her! What do I do?
Q. I saw this gorgous girl in a shop working. She had an amazing smile n she kept looking me in the eye n smiling. I really want to compliment her and get her number but take it one step at a time. What can I say?please help. Thanks...
A. 28 May 2008: The two previous posts are very good. I would say go for it - if she says no then at least you tried rather than thinking what if. Two of my friends met this way, and they are planning on getting married next year. Go for it just be careful :-) x... (read in full...)
What are the rules of cheating?
Q. i was just thinking... what are the "rules of cheating" or what would be considered cheating?...
A. 19 May 2008: The rules of cheating are do not do it. Cheating is anything that you would not do in front of your partner, or anything that if he did it then you would not like it. x... (read in full...)
How to tell him I want longer sexual encounters without offending him?
Q. How do I tell my boyfriend I want him to last longer during sex without offending him? Also, how can I get him to last longer?...
A. 14 May 2008: A BJ before hand would make him last longer - however the down side is that he has had his pleasure so maybe he won't want sex afterwards? If he does then I would have though if you did it all the time then he will not want the sex afterwards as ... (read in full...)
Are teenage girls so worried about pubic hair?
Q. Hello I was talking to my girlfriend about "stuff" yesterday and turns out that herself and most of her friends are all a little worried about how their pubes look, like how they shave them or how they don't shave them. Can any other women ...
A. 14 May 2008: Yes, because there is the image of the perfect woman (and in most teenage boys I would hazard a guess that it involves looking like a porn star).
I think if a guy wants a girl to shave then he should repay the favour?! It's all childish really, ... (read in full...)
Why can't I say I love them?
Q. Hi, It’s not a major problem as such. I can’t tell my boyfriend I love him and I also have issues telling my parents I love them as well. I don’t know why, I can’t explain it (I imagine my life without them and obviously its unbearable), it up...
A. 14 May 2008: Well firstly BigSis glad you got so much amusement out of my name (I got it from a board game I used to have when I was little lol), and I thought it was funny :-).
I don’t think it is so important that I don’t say it, its just other people d... (read in full...)
Can a man get an erection even if he doesn't like the girl?
Q. Ok this is mainly a question for the men out there, but womens responses are more than welcome too. Anyway, if a guy likes a girl he can get an erection when cuddling/sitting with her etc (normal stuff). If he doesn't like a girl 'in that way' wi...
A. 14 May 2008: I wasn't asking because it is happening to me :-P. Its just me and my bf were talking about is the other night and I said I bet he (ok not him specifically, just men in general), their little member would be like "oh girl, girl girl, *stands tall*" ... (read in full...)
How do you define a "long term" relationship?
Q. OK here I go thinking again, ok its another question about peoples points of views. After reading questions on here about people in long term relationships...How long does a relationship need to be to be long term? I don't know how you would cl...
A. 14 May 2008: Hey everyone, thanks for your answers. I was just curious for other peoples points of view. Thanks x... (read in full...)
Is online sexual innuendo considered cheating?
Q. Is online sexual innuendo considered cheating? I ask this because earlier i saw my boyfriend and a girl using sexual innuendo and it made me feel very uncomfortable, he said it was just for laughs and it means nothing to him, but im still not ver...
A. 12 May 2008: I am in the exact same boat as you, my boyfriend did this at the beginning of the year.
It is not cheating but it is VERY VERY wrong. Sexual inuendo, did he just imply something or did he actually outright say something? If it was implied maybe th... (read in full...)
Is it true going on the pill makes you put on weight?
Q. hey i was just wonderin my mum has suggested i go onto the pill and at first i thought this could be a good idea but some people have told me it makes u put on weight..is this true?...
A. 7 May 2008: I went on Microgenol and after almost 2 years I've put on about half a stone (which I do not put down to the pill at all). So long as you eat sensibly then you should have no worries. When I first went to the Nurse for the pill she gave me leaflets ... (read in full...)
How can you tell is a guy is not a virgin?
Q. how would you know if the guys are already not virgin?...
A. 15 April 2008: You cant unless he tells you.
I don't really agree with 2112rush2112's comment " there are a few hints like if u two are close together and he starts to get hard", the rest of the comments are fine.
Just because he gets hard from being next ... (read in full...)
What is lying?
Q. Just a quick question for everyone, in your opinions does not saying anything (and letting the other person assume – whilst not telling them the truth but also not lying) constitute as lying?...
A. 3 April 2008: Oh I completely agree with you Dazzerg. To be honest I think it depends upon the context at which the "assumption" is taking place. Like I said it's an interesting discussion for different peoples points of views :-) ... (read in full...)
What is lying?
Q. Just a quick question for everyone, in your opinions does not saying anything (and letting the other person assume – whilst not telling them the truth but also not lying) constitute as lying?...
A. 3 April 2008: Lol it was more a discussion question. Everything every one has said is true, I was just interested in other peoples points of views on the matter. As Allenrobin said it is not lying…but it is not telling the truth. This didn’t happen to me its... (read in full...)
What is lying?
Q. Just a quick question for everyone, in your opinions does not saying anything (and letting the other person assume – whilst not telling them the truth but also not lying) constitute as lying?...
A. 3 April 2008: Lol this is interesting. The thing is everything that has been said here is true. It was more a discussion question. As Allenrobin said it is "not lying" but its not telling the truth, so is it lying? as askoldersister stated!... (read in full...)
She cries out as if in pain when we make love... IS she in pain???
Q. 36 year old from India. Married with a kid. We have sex atleast 4 times in a week. During the climax, my wife cries and shouts a bit. I am afraid, whether she is in pain. When I enquired after some time, she is telling me that, she had ...
A. 26 March 2008: Some people just like to make noises when they are enjoying theirselves. Maybe you are just hitting the right spot all the time?!... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I love him in a way he'll understand?
Q. Ladies: What is the best way to tell a guy you love him? I know that guys aren't as touchy-feely as we girls tend to be, and I know that their minds usually have a tendency to work VERY differently from the way ours do. What's the best way t...
A. 25 March 2008: If you feel it, say it. People are saying wait 6 months to a year...if you feel like saying it earlier then say it. My boyfriend said he loved me after a WEEK; I don't remember exactly how many times he said it but definately by about 4 months he ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and he's not there for me...
Q. I like this boy, his name is Chris and we've been going out a lot of times since we met but we kept on breaking up over and over again. Then on 3/13/08 we start going out and we were having sex and now I'm pregnant and he's not there. What should ...
A. 20 March 2008: So you sttarted going out on the 13th of March and having sex and now by the 20th March you are sure you are pregnant?!!!!... (read in full...)
Does the trust EVER come back again?
Q. When your partner does something to hurt you, lets say emotionally cheats and even though he's sorry and you give him another chance, things will never really be the same again will they?? Does the trust ever come back... is it possible to forget t...
A. 18 March 2008: I've also been in the exact same situation. Ok its fairly new for me (as in 2 months ago). Well what happened in my situation was I cried a LOT, I was with him. He explained (ok every badly), I had to get it all of my chest, I found it less ... (read in full...)
I feel like my dad doesn't approve of anything in my life...
Q. hi, im sixteen and i need some advice. I want to be an architect but my dad keeps saying that job doesnt pay well for women and idk what to do. Thats something i really want to do, i just feel like my dad doesnt approve of any part of my life, he ...
A. 17 March 2008: You know what I wanted to be an engineer. My dad didnt approve. I spend 3 years at university and doing a good degree (physics) - I dont regret it at all. After the 3 years I decided to go for a masters in Engineering. Well my dad eventually ... (read in full...)
Dumped over the internet, how could she do that?
Q. ok i just want to see how many ppl think breaking up with someone over the internet is the worst way to do it ??????????? its f------ing stupid i hate it how she did it to me ...
A. 17 March 2008: A few years ago I also got dumped over the internet (it was 13th Feb) after he had been telling me for weeks about the plans he had for us on valentines day. Anyway looking back on it now, yes its a horrible thing to have done but I think it was ... (read in full...)
He's a few inches shorder than me...is this important in dating?
Q. I'm 22 years old and just got my first boyfriend 7 months ago. In the past I had what my mom would call "practice dates" but nothing serious. Originally I didn't want to date him for some pretty shallow reasons. One of which is the fact that he is ...
A. 6 March 2008: I wouldn't worry about it, you like him, he likes you! I'm 5ft 10 and my bf is 5ft 6ish. We are almost on for 2 years now, I did put off dating him for a while also due to the height issue. I totally know where you are coming from. Thankfully... (read in full...)
What is spooning and why do men and women enjoy it so much??
Q. I have a question about what the term spooning refirs to. How is spooning done? What information do you have about it? What is it about it that women tend to enjoy? What do men like about it? What aspects of spooning are equally enjoyable for men ...
A. 21 February 2008: Spooning is better than cuddling as you are "cuddling" up against each others bodies, it's comfortable - you might get a little "poke" in your back though. x... (read in full...)
When we are apart, he doesn't seem to miss me. What Gives?
Q. My bf is so loving and affectionate when we are together. I notice a weird pattern when we are apart. With each day, he seems more distant and quiet. He tells me he loves me, but he doesn't act like he misses me the way i miss him. Sometimes he ...
A. 18 February 2008: You know what, I do the exact same thing. My boyfriend is the mushy one in our relationship and he said to me the other day "why do you never say you miss me, as I always do". I do miss him but I also feel a bit silly saying I miss you when its only ... (read in full...)
What does this phrase mean?
Q. Question for the agony aunts. What does this phrase mean? "What goes on tour stays on tour". This is regarding my husband's trips away with a couple of friends.(some are day trips and some are overnight/two days away in another country) It is ...
A. 18 February 2008: It means that whatever happens when he is away stays away. It may be a secret of his, or a secret of a friend, it may be as suggested just boy talk, or something like BadVoice noted. I recently went on a girl’s weekend away and we said this befo... (read in full...)
Should he be so flirty with her?
Q. I’ve a question, what would you think about the following situation? Ok I was looking at some past chat logs on my bf's computer (I wouldn’t normally, just I really don’t trust the girl he was talking to). My bf isn’t naturally very flirty yet he f...
A. 18 February 2008: Hey xemzybabex and Tuatara thanks for your answer, it’s so much easier to know other people who have been in the same situation and worked through it. I agree but I’d rather him not flirt on MSN as if I did exactly the same back then I’m sure he w... (read in full...)
Should he be so flirty with her?
Q. I’ve a question, what would you think about the following situation? Ok I was looking at some past chat logs on my bf's computer (I wouldn’t normally, just I really don’t trust the girl he was talking to). My bf isn’t naturally very flirty yet he f...
A. 18 February 2008: Hey xemzybabex and Tuatara thanks for your answer, it’s so much easier to know other people who have been in the same situation and worked through it. I agree but I’d rather him not flirt on MSN as if I did exactly the same back then I’m sure he... (read in full...)
Every time I see him, I end up with a painful vaginal opening that lasts for weeks.
Q. I'm in my late 40s and going through menopause. I have a boyfriend who I only see once in a while, outside of a long term monogomous relationship. Every time I see him, I end up with a painful vaginal opening that lasts for weeks. He's not massively ...
A. 13 February 2008: You might be allergic to that brand of condom, try another brand and see what the out come is?... (read in full...)
Should he be so flirty with her?
Q. I’ve a question, what would you think about the following situation? Ok I was looking at some past chat logs on my bf's computer (I wouldn’t normally, just I really don’t trust the girl he was talking to). My bf isn’t naturally very flirty yet he f...
A. 9 February 2008: Hey guys, thanks for the responses, I did tell him it bothered me and if he was really serious about us then he had to actually prove he meant it. He has been trying to prove it to me...only time will tell I guess. I'm just a little concern... (read in full...)
I want them to have great lives.
Q. Hello again, My name is Faith and i previously posted a question about my childrens grandmother wanting to take custody of them. First of all thankyou for all your help but i have another question. Ive been thinking alot, and im just wonde...
A. 8 February 2008: I dont agree with what Koga 777 said. I have read your previous post and their grandmother if she truly has their best interests at heart would take you up on your offer of you moving to America with the triplets and not just the triplets. You ... (read in full...)
I am cold all the time, even in the blazing sun. What is wrong with me?
Q. i'm just wondering does anyone out there get really cold n i mean freezing cold. what ever the weather even blazing sun shine i'm cold. i'm never able to get a warm, i work in a kitchen and still cold. my boyfriend hates me touching him som...
A. 8 February 2008: It will be due to bad circulation, I am cold when it is hot as well - I give blood and they comment that my veins are small!
There is a disease called Raynauds Syndrome (research it on the net), where when your hands heat up they take ages to ... (read in full...)
Why do I seem to scare men away? Is there a hidden rule somewhere that I don't know about?
Q. This thing keeps happening to me. I meet someone they flirt, they look for excuses to see me again, we end up having the longest phone conversation and they laugh and giggle and you'd think they like me and then they don't call back or they don't ...
A. 8 February 2008: Dont talk about the ex...my boyfriend did for a good few months when we first started going out. It got to the point I was seriously going to ask him to stop or end it but as if by some miracle he suddenly decided to stop talking about her at the ... (read in full...)
Which one of us is being unreasonable - if either?
Q. Since my childhood I've slept with a noisemaker to drown out all the other sounds of the night. I find it soothing and I daresay I'm somewhat dependent upon it for a good night's sleep. My girlfriend of two years absolutely hates the thing. It's ...
A. 1 February 2008: Hi,
Me and my boyfriend have similar issues, we don't live together so its not a major problem. He likes to have a film/music on to sleep to, I however do not. The slightest noise keeps me awake.
You need to try and sleep without it or tu... (read in full...)
Can fighting/arguments be good for a relationship?
Q. Hi guys. I just have a general relationships question that I've been pondering for quite some time now and I'd really like some outside oppinions. Okay so, do you guys find that fighting/arguments are helpful or detrimental to a relationship? Is it ...
A. 29 January 2008: I think arguments are good for a relationship, it clears the air rather than holding it in for too long and it eating away at your insides. Obviously constant arguments are not good but the odd argument here and there I would say is healthy. You ... (read in full...)
When is it adequate to kiss a person for the first time? I want to, but should I?
Q. How do you decide if you should to kiss a guy yet? I've kissed people before, I just mean, how do you know if you are ready with a new person. I feel like I want to but I don't know if I should, even though he always asks me....
A. 19 December 2007: A peck on the cheek early wouldn’t matter; it will show you're interested yet reserved (i.e. he has to work to earn you rather than throwing yourself at him). However if it reels right go for it; if it doesn’t well there is always next time. ... (read in full...)
I would like my friend to introduce me to her collegue
Q. I have a female friend working on a local copmany, the problem is I am attracted by her collegue and she don't know me we never met before with her collegue I just saw her on my friend photo album bt I am not stop thinking her what can I do to get ...
A. 19 December 2007: Tell your friend you like her and see if she will invite you out somewhere on a group thing so you can get chatting to this woman that way. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he truly likes me? How do you tell if a guy only wants one thing?
Q. how do i tell if a guy likes me for me and how do i tell that he loves me and dosent just want me for other stuff how can i tell him i love him for him...
A. 19 December 2007: If he wants you for one thing then he will mention it in passing and not want to spend time with you doing the "getting to know each other things". Maybe give him a go but stand your ground for a while to see if he likes you and not just wanting one ... (read in full...)
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